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Dec 16, 2008, 09:14 PM
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i cant keep living like this. everyday waking up knowing that nothing is getting better. i keep failing at everything i do...no matter what is it. im hurting so much. and im stuck home with no where to go and no one to talk to. im getting these crazy thoughts of just wanting to hurt myself. and my parents are just making me miserable. GRRRR
 i just wish i could wake up and everything can magically be okay again. but i know thats just impossible. just hurting, crying, don't know what to do with myself. 
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Dec 16, 2008, 10:34 PM
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 Sending a hug your way. Hang in there.
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Dec 16, 2008, 10:52 PM
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You're right, sweety, it is impossible. So do what is possible...have you made it in to see the counsellor yet? You were so close...so very close. why not try again? Remember, I'm here with you. You don't need to go through this alone.
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:06 PM
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thanks
 i did end up going in...i sorta had to. now my parents know about everythng its just bad. but i did go once. and i felt better after. but now im just having so many doubts |
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:08 PM
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I felt the same exact way before, and sometimes I still get into spouts of deep depression and numbness like that. I know its hard, and a lot of people say it, but just be strong and hang tight. Just keep trying. Even though its very agravating, it just takes time. I hope you feel better soon
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:18 PM
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:24 PM
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and idk...i could but i dnt even know what to change. |
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:32 PM
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List the things that are the worst...things that have you feeling so bad....then next to them write anything you can think of that could change to make it better. Whether it seems possible or not. Make sure you focus on things YOU can change....you can't say
Mom is nagging at me---------->Make her stop nagging. That obviously is just a simplistic example, but it has to be something YOU can control and the only thing you can control is YOU. Try writing out things you would say if you were to see the counsellor right now. What would you tell him/her? Doing these may help you a bit...at least to put in focus what the issue is and how you can change it. Home for the holidays isn't always what the songs make it out to be....but our life is what we will make it and I believe you want to make it so much better and I believe you CAN. Here with you to help you see you can do it!
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____________________________________ "We can't talk at the same time! It doesn't work like that! I talk, you talk, I talk, you talk!!" ~ Peanut
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:52 PM
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thank you
 i guess i can try was you suggested. ill start working on that the best that i can |
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:55 PM
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Don't forget to get rest, too. Stressful situations tend to drain us, but we get so stressed we can't sleep or rest and that makes it worse. You are worth it and you can make it...slow though it may be.
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Dec 16, 2008, 11:59 PM
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cantstopcrying i have a lot i need to work on sometimes i do just get really stressed out and freak out and don't know what to do. i just get caught up in that i "should" be happy and get mad because im not when i think i should be. it's confusing idk |
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Dec 17, 2008, 12:45 AM
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Dec 17, 2008, 03:58 AM
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just loads of hugs, loads and loads
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 Yesterday I was so clever, so I want to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself. |
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