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Old Dec 27, 2008, 12:03 PM
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FINALLY my boyfriend is in a clinic where he can be helped... i should be a lot happier & relieved then i feel christmas week was so hectic and bad, so much has been happening and i can't speak to my friends about it. i should get some piece of mind but i'm just wrecked with so much worry and fear now.

on such a bad wicket even though i should feel things have improved. the kids are well and i'm proud of them, they're both brilliant and speaking so so well for their young age! to think they they only started speaking recently and they now both seem fully capable of small sentences... nice to have some positive things i suppose.

so good & bad, but the bad overshadows any good.
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Old Dec 27, 2008, 12:10 PM
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Send my love to Griffe, and take good care of yourself. (((((((((((( Dingoroo )))))))))))))
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Old Dec 27, 2008, 06:23 PM
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i am so glad that griffe is getting the help he needs, take this time to help you, as you will need your strengh to carry on, hopefully he wont fight the clinic and let them help him

good luck to you both

aw i bet it was nice trying to have a conversation with the twins, give griffe our love and we will wait for him in thread war
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Old Dec 27, 2008, 07:45 PM
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what wrong with bf me hope he ok
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Old Dec 27, 2008, 09:33 PM
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thank you all

i do my research at home but i frankly don't know what i can do to help the situation; my own well-being takes a backseat to this and i'm still on my two feet, even if it's hard right now.

it's kind of funny (wrong word but oh well), in real life i'm much more confident and determined, but i can never tell the people around me anything- online i'm shy and a little reserved, but i still can't tell anyone so much. i guess that's just how i work.

the clinic gives some internet and phone time and i get visiting time with him, but i don't know how long this will last, i have a feeling he'll be out of there as soon as he grows tired of it.

i guess all i can do at this point is try and take care of myself, and even if i've been very independent from a very young age, i've never been able to take excellent care of myself emotionally.
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Old Dec 27, 2008, 09:58 PM
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(((((((((ding)))))))))))))))))
It's progress though Not to long ago you thought he would never go right?
Do try to take care of you too though, when you can....
And yay on the kids! I'm glad they are doing well.
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Old Dec 27, 2008, 10:22 PM
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you have to take life in baby steps sometimes
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Old Dec 29, 2008, 12:13 PM
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he wants out already. i should have known better then to think this could work- i just feel so worn out and apathetic to the whole situation that, at this point, i almost don't care. whatever happens with this, will happen. i have work to do today and this is just a pointless chase.
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Old Dec 29, 2008, 04:42 PM
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is there any way you can get him to stay saying its like a holiday coz you need the break

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Old Dec 29, 2008, 06:00 PM
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may I ask what your bf is in the clinic for?
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maybe kathy's right? dunno
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