shut out

How history repeats itself.

I am a horrible person, a waste of space..... and everything is my fault.

But those are lies..... ********

{*{*{*{*Fuzzybear*}*}*}*}
Honey bear whats wrong I'm here talk to me, you've been here for me and now I'm here for you
Angie

I can't talk.... but I checked chat earlier on, and I was shut out....... like I was shut out in my childhood.

Thanks for your reply,
Fuzzy

You mean you were bumped off , or no one talked please sweetie I'll listen

no, I was shut out of a private chatroom..... but I guess I didn't "ask" to be allowed in.

Thanks for caring, you are sweet,
Fuzzy

Well poopie on there scoop, we'll just shut them out next time you have a cave par-tay right sweetie

((((((fuzzy))))))

Oh fuzzy, do be kind to my bear friend. We are here and I LOVE bears. Be well fuz one.

((((((((((FUZZY))))))))))

I'm so sorry you were shut out. I am sorry it made you feel that you were unwanted.

Please beleive that you are cared for and loved very much here.

Fuzzy, one night when I was in bad shape and needed to talk, two "insiders" (you know there are cliques here, right?) basically kicked me out of "their" private chat even though it was clear I needed help. People can be selfish that way sometimes. I'm sorry it happened to you.

Your fellow bear

You are NOT a waste of space. Everything is NOT your fault.

You ARE hearing messages from long ago. It hurts so much when something hits us right in that painful spot from our childhoods. Sounds like this did just that to you. I'm very sorry you hurt over this.

You are NOT a waste of space. Everything is NOT your fault.

You ARE fuzzy. You ARE kind. You ARE worthy no matter what anyone in chat thinks or doesn't think or whatever!!!

You ARE worthy regardless of anyone else's opinion.

The fuzzette is a worthy bear and great fuzzanator. Be kind to the bear please. Don't make me come put up a sign in your home about no taunting the bears!! Don't think your dh would appreciate it lol

{{{{{{{{{{Sweet Fuzzy}}}}}}}}}}

You are a wonderful special person who cares a lot about others even though you are hurting so much yourself. You are surely not a waste of space.

I'm sorry you got hurt!
Love you!
nightdream

you are one of the first ones to show up when someone is troubled....you're great!! Pat

Thanks gang!!! (((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))))

xoxox
Fuzzy <---- should be long ago

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i think you're a constant presence here that i've come to depend on. waste of space??? nope, definitely not.

i hope whatever has you feeling so badly lightens for you soon. i'm here if you want to talk.

love,

kd

You are not a waste of space - say it with me - Fuzzy is not a waste of space. You always are there - believe I know I lean on you alot. If there are those that decide to "shut" you out. It is there loss as they are the one missing out on you.

Love ya ((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))

((((((((((Fuzzy))))))))))))

I am so sorry this happened to you I am here if you need me hun. You are always there for me.

Love you xoxo

fuzzzzzzzzy.......i hope you feel much better today. you've always supported me and, in fact, held me up more than a few times.......xoxoxo to you, from myself and fayeroe and timmee, mikee, amsu, pearlcat and teddy jack!!

Hi Fuzzybear --

I am sorry that you were shut out of a private chat room and felt left out and unsupported.

I was in a private chatroom tonight, so I hope I wasn't part of the problem.

Whenever I have been in private, protected chat, it has never been to shut out anyone. I rarely use the "eye" button to even know who is coming and going in other rooms. I go to private chat to get my needs met or to be supportive for someone else who is uncomfortable in the larger, open room. Sometimes my "need" is to laugh and giggle and not respond to people who need support.

People needing support do come into social chat when they aren't getting what they need elsewhere. This lays a huge guilt trip on those who are there to socialize -- and we do not wish to make anyone's problems bigger by being unsupportive. We are here because we are ill, too. But sometimes one needs escape, and a private room is a place to confide privately instead of publicly, or laugh without guilt, or chat with people one hasn't connected with in a long time --which can be hard when public rooms are crowded as general was last night.

I am sorry that you felt locked out, because I have been the one who has felt locked out, too. I know it is an awful feeling. I have even felt that here at the Forums. But I do hope you can see that it was probably not about excluding you, dear Fuzzybear, but about the others getting their needs met.

((((((((((((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))))))))

I'm sorry you felt shut out. I too have felt that way when people have created private rooms and i have not known the password... it hurts. sorry you had to feel this way.

((((((((((((((((Kimmy, Karen, Heather, Pat, Wants2Fly, Silver))))))))))))))))))

C'mon, dear bear, you know that is not true. . . you are a very sweet "kid".

I mean that too

DE

((((((((((( Fuzzy )))))))))))))))

Thanks for being here for me ((((((((((((((((darkeyes)))))))))))))))))

honey, i hope you're feeling much better. our family here loves you..your bear hugs are the best!

Thanks Pat, I am feeling better and I'm sending bearhugs to you and your pack!!

((((((((((((((((((((Pat))))))))))))))))))))

xoxoxo
Fuzzy