Crying....

I am in the middle of transitioning to a new T. Internally, all my parts are having difficulties with the transition. My old T and I decided we would drop back to sessions every two weeks and this is the first skipped week I've had.

I feel terrible inside. James is crying somewhere and is hurting so bad. The rest are just quiet and I think they are hiding...or numb...I don't know. But I can hear James crying and he is so at the surface right now.

I am seeing new T every week, but don't see her again until Saturday. This is so hard. I hate it. I've already called old T's voice mail just so I could hear her voice today and I started crying. Maybe I should write her a letter, or let James write something, but I don't know if he can.

Just really sad today and scared about the future!!

(((Elysium)))

((elsium))



Shez

Dear ones, It's been my experience that when a little wants to write, and they often do, someone will help. i have also read about this as being true for others. could an older alter help James write to your former T? I'm sure it would help him a lot. I'm sad to watch you go through this, as i lost my T of 10 years very suddenly and so I realize how difficult this is. Please know that I care and support you as you struggle to come to terms with this unwanted change. if safe

We are here too James and Elysium and the rest.

Earlier, we left a fun little song in Videos, if you care to watch. It may help a bit.

We finally got the to the felts and paper today, will go try again in a few.



Hunny

Elysium -James... I'm thinking of you. One day at a time... you'll make it!

I understand how James feels. Some of my parts have a really difficult time when I don't see my Ts for several days at a time (even though they won't admit to it). Let James write if he wants to write a letter. YOu don't have to read it to her if he doesn't want to. I will be here for you if you need to talk.

Pooh

I am so sorry. Sometimes just leaving a voice mail helps a lot... for me. I wish you all the best

It is very hard. i'm still struggling with just such a change, although mine wasn't so i'd have someone better. My old one just flaked out. i'm sorry you're struggling so much but i hope your new T works out really well for you. i think i wasted a lot a lot of time with the wrong T even though she helped with some things and was really nice.

But, however it turns out, it's hard RIGHT NOW and i'm sorry you're going through that. i hope you feel better really really soon.

Elysium,

Hey
We can understand the pain of switching T's and even though it hurts right now, another T is waiting for thee (you). We think in order to get the best help is by swithching T's. Different T's have things that add on that adds suggestons and each T or doctor;
SAFE Hugs and just a suggestion, ppl are mourning, My system dealt with it by writting and even extra patience for your "littles"
ThaCrew is so very about your loss of your old T. Were so sorry! Please know ThaCrew is thinking about you all in positive vibes. Your guys are so brave!
ThaCrew

((((((((((((((((( Elysium ))))))))))))))))))

((((((((Ely and all)))))))))))
Transitions are very difficult. It means change and change is scary.
Spend some time with all of your selves and find out what they need.
I am glad that your first T is weaning you away and helping you to transition to the new T. Far better than being "dropped"....
Here with yous.

(((Elysium))) & (((James)))

Changes are hard and scary but we'll sit with you all the way through.

((((((((((((((((elysium)))))))))))))))))
(((((((((((((((((james))))))))))))))))))))))

hopin that u r beginnin ta feel better...changes r so difficult specially for us...we too r tryin ta transition ta anothr T but the going aint so very good an we donno iffn we can actually stay with her...we will sit with u till u feel better...

abbi