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Old Aug 27, 2009, 11:54 PM
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They must have been written a long time ago; we don't remember them. They were written to daughters & the husband . They were S* notes.
We dont remember & are scared. We don't know who wrote them. (there are a few who take "Mom" roles) It shook us up big time.
Not sure whatto do....

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Old Aug 28, 2009, 12:06 AM
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(((((((((((calista))))))))))) I'm not sure either, I hope you're doing too well but don't let it scare you. You'll find out!!!
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Old Aug 28, 2009, 01:42 AM
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Maybe just take them and put them in an envelope. These were important papers at one time but now they are part of the history of what you went through. Put the envelope in a special place. Then, take them, if you want, to the t appointment. It's pretty soon, right? It won't be long now. Please take very good care for a few days more till you get there...it's been hard and I understand. Probably a little stressed due to a few things that is causing more thoughts. We are all here for you.

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They must have been written a long time ago; we don't remember them. They were written to daughters & the husband . They were S* notes.
We dont remember & are scared. We don't know who wrote them. (there are a few who take "Mom" roles) It shook us up big time.
Not sure whatto do....
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Old Aug 28, 2009, 04:16 AM
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(((((((((((((((Calista)))))))))))))) I know how scary this is. I found similar notes in a notebook a year or two ago. They were dated 1992 and written to my husband and two children. I agree with Hunny about putting them up and taking them to T. I have parts that are suicidal too and T was able to talk to me about them and to those parts. Keeping in close contact with T and paying attention to how I'm feeling when I can has helped a lot. Please take very gentle care.
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Old Aug 28, 2009, 10:32 PM
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Calista

Maybe just take them and put them in an envelope. These were important papers at one time but now they are part of the history of what you went through. Put the envelope in a special place. Then, take them, if you want, to the t appointment. It's pretty soon, right? It won't be long now. Please take very good care for a few days more till you get there...it's been hard and I understand. Probably a little stressed due to a few things that is causing more thoughts. We are all here for you.

Hunny
I just saw this post and didn't remember it but I thanked you for it.
It's confusing me. I will take them to T. He comes back next week I hope.
Thank you all for answering me.

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Old Aug 30, 2009, 01:57 AM
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((((Calista+12))))

I do understand as a few years ago we too wrote those notes to several people. It is very unsettling to find something like that and not even remember writing them.

What you are feeling is normal. Please do not be too hard on yourself. Sometimes we have no answers. Things just appear and we know not where they come from.

Know we are here for you and listening. You are not alone. Remember to breath. Sending you gentle hugs.

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Old Aug 30, 2009, 10:58 PM
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We are thinking of hanging on to the notes. We may have use for them.
We are not afraid of what might have been; we're disappointed by what wasn't.
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Old Aug 30, 2009, 11:11 PM
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ARGGGHHH!!! HATE All of this! Hate the body and the mind.
STUPID UGLY HATEFUL *****
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Old Aug 30, 2009, 11:57 PM
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ARGGGHHH!!! HATE All of this! Hate the body and the mind.
STUPID UGLY HATEFUL *****



(((((((((((((((((((Calista)))))))))))))))))))))))))

there's stuff to love too, sending hugs, stay safe
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Old Aug 31, 2009, 10:58 AM
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I have similar feelings like the one's you expressed last night. They come from stress and frustration in my life. I'm sorry you feel that way and want you to know that I see love, compassion and good things in you.

Sending you gentle hugs if you want them today.

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