[turquoisesea]

so when you're stuck with friends and past and everything else you don't relate to what do you do for fun?

It's like me well main me I guess is such a NERD sometimes and her friends are well besides the fact that they're never around there's NOTHING that interests me about them. Just DUH x.x

So... want to just hang , chilll with people but who the do I go to for that?

Just starting out here dunno even what I like to do.
Meh, figured this windows was up anyway why not ask on here.

oh yeah. Dunno if I'm even real and if I'll be around but here I am and arg how frustrating. BORING THIS GIRL.

~Jenn/Jennifer/Jenny/WHATEV

[WePow]

Hey there. First, if you are thinking, you are REAL. If you are an Alter within someone, you are REAL. You might not realize you are a part of the Host and you may deny it, but the truth is that you are ONE. So you are very much real. Just a part that has been put in a safe compartment for some reason. But always real.

It sounds like you might not feel as if your host is listening to you. Some hosts are so hurt that they don't know who to trust or listen to - even if it is their own parts inside them. It can be very painful and confusing to the host. But each alter has a right to be heard out. So for you, you will need to find a way to communicate clearly and respectfully with your host about your needs. Do it with love - as the saying goes "You get more bees with sugar than with salt" - or something like that :-)

[crystalrose]

hi your real. U maybe an alter but you are very real. Sounds like you want to liven things up a bit! I think that it would be great. Some people like me are just the life of the party. Have fun. From terri

[Miracle1986]

You are real.

[iamtwilight]

you're real even if you don't hang around much

and yeah. communication is a big key to having your needs met. it looks like you need something else than what main you needs. i got the impression that on your first night you got to do something you liked, so that's a good start.

i'm really bad at saying what i really like to do because for a long time i've only done what others like and forgot what i like, but i'm slowly trying new things and seeing if i like them. although i have to do it myself to avoid "interfering suggestions" from others, but if you don't have a problem i'd suggest that to you

it's really confusing getting started out here, but it gets better with time.

if ok

twilight

[Crew]

Hey there,

COMMUNICATE!

Thacrew