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How do you know which one is there during times of intimacy?
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Well...you don't always.
Sometime you should try asking your head....ask the insiders if they can tell you who/which one has the role of intimate partner. Sometimes there will be different alters that share the role; like one to deal with the emotions of the intimacy, and one to deal with any physical discomfort/sensations. It could take time for you to figure this out. But...if you practice talking to your insiders...and you let them know that it is okay to talk with you...hopefully, after a bit they will start to share more and more with you. Just my thoughts. ![]()
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It is amazing what they will tell you if you ask.
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thank you, Kevin and Elysium. I do appreciate your responses. It appears that I have two distinct persons there when I am in this situation. Thank you! phoenix
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