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Old Oct 23, 2009, 01:16 AM
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How do you know which one is there during times of intimacy?
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Old Oct 23, 2009, 02:16 AM
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Well...you don't always.

Sometime you should try asking your head....ask the insiders if they can tell you who/which one has the role of intimate partner. Sometimes there will be different alters that share the role; like one to deal with the emotions of the intimacy, and one to deal with any physical discomfort/sensations.

It could take time for you to figure this out. But...if you practice talking to your insiders...and you let them know that it is okay to talk with you...hopefully, after a bit they will start to share more and more with you.

Just my thoughts.
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Old Oct 23, 2009, 11:45 AM
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thank you, Kevin and Elysium. I do appreciate your responses. It appears that I have two distinct persons there when I am in this situation. Thank you! phoenix
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