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Feb 27, 2010, 07:27 PM
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just want to feel safe... just want to feel loved... god i don't know why i feel like this...got nothing to be afraid of... but still am afraid... don't know what love is like... can't fix it... can't make it right... don't want to be scared anymore... god what is wrong with me...
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Feb 27, 2010, 10:21 PM
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((((raiyel)))
Thank you reaching out and posting. I am sorry you are feeling so bad. Can I say that nothing is wrong with you. We all want to feel safe and loved. And I can tell you there are so many times I feel so unsafe and I cannot feel love or even the feeling that anyone loves me. So many times as we grow up we are unsafe and we do not know love that it is no wonder these feelings are so real to many of us. And even when someone says they love us and they probably do we cannot connect that part of us that never knew it to believe or to even go there. For why should we? Someone once told us they loved us and then something that did not feel like love happened what more can we compare it to for then love equaled pain and that is not love. And when that pain comes how were we suppose to feel safe. I am not sure what is going on for you but I hear you saying you want to feel safe. And you want to feel loved. I know that feeling of not wanting to be afraid anymore. It is so real I can reach out and touch it. So many times we hide away trying to find some sort of way to not be afraid. Coming here many times can help. Talking about the scary helps. Do you see a t at all? Do you have anyone you can talk to IRL? You can talk here and tell us what it is that you are afraid of. Sometimes we may not really know but something is making us feel that way. I just want you to know that you are not alone. Right now we are feeling afraid too. Maybe that is why we are trying to reach out to you. Can you say more about the scared or about why you feel unsafe? Is there something that is going on? I thank you for posting and I hope you know that you are not alone. I am glad that you joined PC and that you reached out here. Know that we are listening and that we care. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts.  dps |
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Feb 27, 2010, 10:55 PM
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I'm sorry you are feeling scared.
You are safe here.
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It is a miracle that I have survived thus far and I strive to help others see miracles in every day life.
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Feb 28, 2010, 12:20 AM
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yes, have a T... don't think T can help this though...don't trust enough... don't trust anyone... wife told 5 people about my problem when begged her not to tell anyone... so scared...don't know why... she's going to leave... she already said she would... dont know if imagined that or not... so scared... don't want her to leave...she's not happy and don't want to keep her from happy just cause we can't have it... god what to do... don't know what to do don't know what to say... still so scared...
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Mar 01, 2010, 12:23 AM
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Keep posting here, keep telling us whats happening for you, keep talking to us, we are all listening. Most of us understand those feelings. Thank you for writing them down as I for one have trouble articulating them when they come to cloak my mind. We are listening, we are hearing your pain, your bewilderment, your panic. I'm sorry to sound apathetic...but these intense emotions will pass.
I'm sorry you are experiencing such confusion...keep writing it down, keep expressing it, we are listening. kp
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Mar 01, 2010, 11:40 AM
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We all have those same feeling each one was caused by a different event but the end result is still the same. As children our trust was broken by those that should have protected us. As we growed up because of the way we had to learn to survive the pain . We are not like most people. The even sadder part is that others use our differents againts us to push us away even more. But I have learned that after being hurt so much I will also start pulling back my self that can cause a circle of events that can make you even feel more lonely. If your partner has reached for help maybe bring her here for surport so that she/he finds out that you are not alone on this journey. each one of our inner parts carries a heavey burding now is the time to let them unload in a safe place we hope that can be here for you to.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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Mar 07, 2010, 07:51 PM
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((( Raiyel ))) safe hugs
Know you are thought of and that you can post here and maybe that will help you feel supported a bit while things settle a bit. Hunny,  . Quote:
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