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Jul 22, 2005, 02:53 PM
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This morning we took our kitty that i love so much to the vets to get spayed. All morning until 2pm we worried if she was ok- we love her so much. She's the best cat. i just called and the vet said that the surgery went fine but that she was pregnant. Tears. i would have never wanted her to have the surgery if she was prgnant. She only got out by mistake once when my h wasn't careful. We found her about two hours later in the yard. i feel so so terrible. i should have asked the vet to take a pregnancy test first but everything was so confusing because of the worrying about her and i didn't have any idea. We wouldn't have wanted her kittens killed. Tears. i hate myself - what can- how can i comfort myself. i'm so sorry that it happened. It's too late. The surgery was more complicated and her kittens are gone. Tears.
kerria 
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Jul 22, 2005, 04:08 PM
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i'm sorry that happened ((((((((((((kerria))))))))))))
the vet should have asked or explained. i'm sorry. kd
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Jul 22, 2005, 04:16 PM
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(((((((Kerria))))))) I'm so very sorry that this happened. But loving animals isn't always easy because they can't always "tell us" what's going on....we can just sense their affection. So, don't blame yourself...and I'm so very grateful that you still have your wonderful kitty w/you.......
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Jul 22, 2005, 05:24 PM
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((((((((((((((( Kerria ))))))))))))))))
I'm sorry to hear that happened 
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Jul 22, 2005, 06:59 PM
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Thank you, (((kimmydawn))), (((MacD))) and
(((silver queen))). The vet didn't know before and we didn't know. This whole subject is triggering for me. Littles are so upset - there's bad fb about it from the past that i can't talk about , so much turmoil inside and no where to go with it. MacD, you're right- at least i have our precious kitty. We pick her up tomorrow. i need to ask everyone inside to help put this away so we're not so upset about it. We're a wreck all day. Thanks for being there, kerria |
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Jul 22, 2005, 07:05 PM
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Thank you, Ozzie.
this is a very sad day. It's so hard to ever get over. we love kitty so much and would have loved her kittens. kerria |
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Jul 22, 2005, 07:13 PM
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 I'm so sorry that happened. Petunia |
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Jul 22, 2005, 07:36 PM
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(((((Kerria)))))
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Jul 22, 2005, 08:43 PM
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((((((((((Kerria))))))))))
I know you didn't do this intentionally. Accidents happen. It doesn't make them easier to deal with, but they happen. My mom always tells me that things happen for a reason. There's a reason you lost your sweet kittens. I choose to think they're in a better place now. It wasn't your fault.
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Jul 22, 2005, 08:58 PM
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((((((Kerria))))) You're so on the right track to healing from this.....Concentrate on that precious creature that is needing your love and protection....and that will help you get over the "what might have been" pain.....I have a thousand stories of the animals that I've loved and lost...but they are all a precious part of the tapestry of my life....and I'm so grateful..... Grace
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Jul 22, 2005, 09:00 PM
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You did not mean to hurt this kitty or any of hers that is obviouse. Flash back would be a different story. Been there.
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#12
Jul 23, 2005, 01:28 AM
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Thank you for being there, Everyone. Maybe a good thing would be to Always check first before spaying any cat or dog. i don't know if they do pregnacy tests- i suppose there would be a way- or talk to the vet first.
We had no indication at all. She was only outside once by accident and that possibility didn't enter our mind. It would save so much heartache. MT MT MT MT MT somehow we remembered a terrible time that one of my parts had she was only fifteen . She was home alone and too afraid to live . she didn't know what was happening. everything was wrong and nothing, no one could help. tears, kerria |
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Jul 25, 2005, 11:14 AM
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(((((((((((((((( Kerria ))))))))))))))))))
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Jul 25, 2005, 12:21 PM
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that's truly a horrible thing to have happen and a horrible memory to go with it. (((((((((((((Kerria))))))))))))))))
stay safe and strong. -shadow
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Jul 26, 2005, 12:03 PM
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im sorry when we do something that accidentaly hurts or scares the kitten our A says that the kitty nows its not on purpose. and a t leaste you know the baby kittys are in hevin.
 our A say sthat we all go to heaven when we're littlest. so they are in hevin.
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#16
Jul 26, 2005, 04:58 PM
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Kerria,
Hope you are feeling better. Check in and let us know how you are doing. Petunia |
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