[allthegirls6]

I only a baby so please not shout at me but Audrey been very upset and she got a problem too and Im trying to make her feel better. Maybe if I give her a cuddle from my dolly Bella she would feel better.What makes big people feel better?

Iris

[dottie]

Financial security and affirmation.

~Dottie

[allthegirls6]

Dottie,

Iris is only a baby.
Im 13 so maybe I can see the funny side to what youve posted. Iris is crying about it as she thinks you are laughing at her.

Snodders

[oksomaybeimnuts]

((((((((((((((((Iris)))))))))))))))))))
I think a hug from your dolly Bella would make me feel better and i bet it would make Audrey feel better too.

[allthegirls6]

It not matter, big girl laughing at me and I go and hide now.

Iris

Iris you are sweet to want to help audrey.
I think if you share your dolly with her and find a way to help her get a hug (I don't know if you can give her hugs inside, but maybe you can help her find someone else who can hug her?) she will know you care, and whatever is bothering her knowing she is cared about will help. You could also tell her to write to me - sometimes big people need to talk with other bigs about what is bothering them. Please don't hide away sweet one.
(((iris))))))

Caroline

[allthegirls6]

but i got a pain now.

Iris

Here's a big ((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))) for you to make the pain hurt less. It's the hug Big C gives her daughters when they have pains. Sometimes the pains are because they are sad. Is that what sort of a pain yours is? Maybe you could go snuggle with a blanket, or come under this umbrella with me and zorah till you feel a bit better. Petunia said I could borrow it. It's nice to snuggle up with others when we are feeling sad.

(((((((((((((iris))))))))) are you cuddling your dolly now?

elsie

[allthegirls6]

Yes, I got bella, shes on my knee and she a soft dolly. Igot pain from the big girl laughing at me. Snodders says Ive to be brave baby and not get to crying.
Iris

I don't think the big girl meant to make you sad and I don't think she was laughing at you. I think maybe she didn't realise how little you are and she used big words you don't understand. But "affirmation" means letting people know you like them, you love them, letting them know they are OK. That is what you were trying to do for Audrey.
You are being very brave and very kind to help Audrey. Maybe you should all go and get some sleep now - it is late here and you must be tired. Sometimes things seem worse when we are tired. I will be here tomorrow and maybe we can talk then. I have to go and get some sleep too but I will stay online if you don't feel safe and need to talk some more. But I do think going to bed might help.
elsie

[silver_queen]

((((((((((((((( iris ))))))))))))))))

[allthegirls6]

why the girl so cheeky to me. Im getting crying and got a bad feeling and now Im not know where to go and the girl said a bad thing to me and then someone came along and took it away the thing she said.
Iris

((((((((((iris))))))))))

Be safe.

caroline

[kimmydawn]

(((((((((((((iris)))))))))))))))))

it's k now. i'm here. you're safe.

love,

kd

[allthegirls6]

Thank you kimmy. The girl write another thing to me that not nice and made me cry. Then someone came along and took the bad thing away that the girl write. Caroline helped to got it sorted and now Allison is with me and we both got our dollies. I got a bad fright. Not understand what the big girl mean and why she be bad to me. I only ask about how to make someone feel better. Irsi

[Broken_Wing]

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allthegirls5 said:
I only a baby so please not shout at me but Audrey been very upset and she got a problem too and Im trying to make her feel better. Maybe if I give her a cuddle from my dolly Bella she would feel better.What makes big people feel better?

Iris

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Big people often do things that they remember from childhood to feel better, such as cuddling with someone they love...or hugging a teddy bear...or lying down on the couch with a blanket...or making some hot chocolate with marshmallows to sip on. Anything that will make them feel safe.

You are very sweet to want to help Audrey, and giving her a cuddle from your dolly would help, I bet! Hugs always help, and telling someone you love them will help a lot too!

I hope that Audrey feels better soon. A big hug to you for helping Audrey, Iris!

[kimmydawn]

sometimes ppl don't understand, iris. it can be hard sometimes, i know. it's all ok. i promise.

i'm sorry you got a fright. i will stay right here for a while and make sure this is a safe place for you. ok?

kd

[allthegirls6]

thank you

x iRIS

[Gemstone]

((((((iris)))))

(((((((Iris))))))))
It's ok, Iris. Sometimes big people just say dumb stuff. Don't worry about it. You're a good girl to help Audrey. I think letting her cuddle with Bella is a good thing. I'm here and so is W_I and deedee and Willow.
Love Vicki

[shadowdancer]

i think you're a very good girl Iris. it is sweet of you to try and help audrey. you and audrey are welcome to write me anytime you want. ((((((((iris and audrey)))))))))

-shadow