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May 25, 2006, 04:42 PM
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i need help. my husband says i have a problem with, as he says, spinning the facts. i have a hard time telling each person the same facts each time. i was not even aware i was doing this until recently. he now wants a divorce and i don't. if i don't change this it will be too late for my marriage. i used to think i was a good person, but now i am not so sure.
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May 25, 2006, 04:44 PM
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Tough one, I have to say it's hard to trust someone who isn't consistent in telling the truth
 Have you seen a therapist?Good thoughts, Fuzzy
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May 25, 2006, 04:47 PM
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please ask him if he's go to couple's therapy with you......xoxox pat
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May 25, 2006, 04:53 PM
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no therapist yet. some other parts to the same story are. we got pregnant and decided to give the baby up to our best friends to adopt. he has closed my cleaning business down due to the fact he did not feel it was making enough money. took my car to sell, was in his name and he didn't feel he could afford the payments. shut down my cell phones because they were in the business name. i have no way of making money right now so i don't know how to seek therapy. he is still living here but there is no communication other than email. i feel like i am totally alone and i am miserable, i will do anything it takes to make my marriage work. i do not set out to lie to people. let me give an example...i had an episode of bleeding(a little bit) during this pregnancy. i told my husband about it, but not to our friends who will be adopting this child. he says that was lying, i did not want them to worry. i did call my doctor right awaty however, and was told to rest with my feet up to see if the bleeding would stop. it did. that is one example
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May 25, 2006, 04:55 PM
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i have asked him and he says he is just done but we will talk when he can get his thoughts in order
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May 25, 2006, 04:57 PM
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I think Pat's suggestion of couple's therapy sounds like a good one although I understand the lack of funds.... It does sound like he's being very hard on you.
 We are here for support....(((((( carole_1 ))))))
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#7
May 25, 2006, 05:03 PM
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thank you for being here for me. he is being hard which i understand. i just wish i could get him to let go of some of this anger and talk.
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#8
May 25, 2006, 10:21 PM
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there might be a county or state clinic in your area where you can get therapy that you won't have to pay for. also, ministers will provide couples counselings. the Catholic Charities have free counseling. good luck, pat
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May 26, 2006, 03:53 AM
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thank you again. i will check into those things.
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