More fighting

We're doing bad but most people think we are fine cos we pretend real good.

Everyone is away or not talking in 3D.
Counsellor not talking on email (she don't use it much) - see her and GP Tuesday.
Pastor and wife go away Fri till Mon.
Nobody else really talking.
We don't like being like this time after time.
We don't like it being fighting here
alice & elsie

im scared too
its just going to keep going
maybe i shold leave

People get angry at eachother and then shout at us.

We need to hide good.

we still scared too
fighting inside

we feel that too gem.

They don't know how scary it feels when they shout and fight. feels like they gonna be mad at us and not like us at all and then everyone go away and leave us.

alice & elsie

gem, dont go away. Hang around here cos we all want to make you feel better and safe. I know a lot has been going on here but the little forum is always safe.

All the girls

We are scared of the fighing here, outside. When people fight, when they are mad, they always get mad at us and tell us off and we have to try to make them happy again.

Caroline et all, maybe Ruth hasnt checked her email cos Im sure she would have got back to youif she knew there was a message.

In terms of fighting here, i dont think this DID forum has any upsets, we all here to help and listen and you girls can say what you want when you want without fear of reprisals.

All the girls

Zorah, I know thingsa re hard. Can you talk about it? Can you all talk to each other.? Can I help?

All the girls

it was email and ruth doesn't always have time i know.

i think people here are safe but sometimes people come in from outside and they don't understand and they say scary things like happened to you.

Caroline et all, you dont have to make anyone happy. People need to just hear what you have to say and accept it. We all want to listen

All the girls

How about until Petunia comes along, I hold the umbrella?
I brought one for each hand.

no not everyone wants to listen and sometiems when we talk they get mad. Sometimes they are mad with us and sometimes theya re just mad. Either way they shout and that is SCARY

(((((Caroline)))))
If you never read posts in General, you don't see many fights here. I knew I shouldn't read outside the DD forum but I did when ozzie left, & the fighting scared me too, so badly I nearly left the site.
Since then Lucy thinks we shouldn't come here anymore & now we are fighting inside too.

its not safe in here either
not safe anywhere
when people fight they hit and hurt me

1day I thnk that is a wonderful idea. How about everyone who is afraid goes under the umberella and then you can all be together and feel a bit better.

All the girls

Can be scary, yes. We have lots of umbrellas for everyone.

I have to read cos if I read I know and I can try to be ready for the problems. Sometimes you have to read secretly so that you know where the problems are and what you should not say.

We can understand why lucy is scared and wants to hide away. we feel taht too but people we trust are telling us we should stay and so we don't know wht to do

we will hide here

(((((((((((((gem)))))))))))))))

they shouldn't hit you that is bad. They don't hit us only shout then stop talking to us and tell us we are bad.

Petunia brought wonderful animals. Manatees!

What are manatees?

Ok guys

Gem, it is safe here. You gotta beleive that. No one in DID fights. We are all here to help and everyone knows its small people who can be talking so extra care is always taken.

Zorah, you have done well to stick around after reading posts in other forums that were scary. You are very brave and Im glad you managed to stay.

Caroline and all, no one is going to shout at you here. Its just not allowed.

Ive put your replies all on the one post cos you all got the same problem and you can all work together to sort this. You have started already cos you all talking about it.
All the girls

These are manatees. Now that I think about it, they kinda look like me.


They are one of my favorite animals!

wow, they are huge.

Iris