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Old Feb 22, 2006, 09:10 AM
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Hi..Found out over the weekend that the reason our Mommy was so distant and hurtful, holds us responsible for our father's treatment of her, and the Hostage incident when I was 6. Understand why now she abandoned us all so young, parts feeling so hurt..now being called an IT because that is what we are, we were nothing then and we are nothing now..Sorry..to much pain.. Family really know how to hurt U dont they
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Old Feb 22, 2006, 11:58 AM
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(((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ((((((( ACCEPTANCE )))))))

I understand how you feel, my own mother turned her back on for many years when I was younger - - - she even choose to stay with one of the men that sexually abused me, and she even blamed me for the insistent. Phooie Spit Spit.... Family really know how to hurt U dont they

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Old Feb 22, 2006, 12:56 PM
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if children truly held all the power that the adults in our lives gave us credit for holding...

i'm sorry.

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Old Feb 22, 2006, 01:18 PM
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Family really know how to hurt U dont they
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Old Feb 22, 2006, 01:21 PM
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Trying to work..but all I can think about is this..
Family really know how to hurt U dont they
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Old Feb 22, 2006, 03:43 PM
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Old Feb 22, 2006, 04:37 PM
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Thank you everyone, I will be alright..just feeling stuff I would rather not feel or acknowledge. Old coping mechanisms are hard to break out of..this just hurts so much..at different levels..and I just want to curl up for a few days and let it wash over, but I can't, got other responsibilities, just tired and confused..thanx
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Old Feb 22, 2006, 06:42 PM
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<font color="purple"> (((((Evangelista))))) big safe gentle hugs So sorry your going through so much right now. We wished we could do something to help. Family really know how to hurt U dont they </font>
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Old Feb 22, 2006, 09:53 PM
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Little ones are in such pain, please forgive, but would like to post:


BYE BYE SPIDERS..WHO SPIN THE WEB
BYE BYE SNAKES THAT SLEEP IN OUR BEDS

NO MORE PRAY ME MY SOULS TO KEEP
HE THAT HEARS LEFT WOUNDS TO DEEP

EYES STARE BLANK, DISTANT AND RED
PEEK A BOOS WEEP AND SCREAM IN OUR HEAD

BYE BYE SPIDERS
BYE BYE SNAKES

BYE BYE ME UNTIL WE WAKES
UNTIL THEN SLEEP THE UNSLEPT WONDER
WHILE WE DREAM A NIGHTMARES SLUMBER

Thank u all for all u b to us, we will b alright..just tiired from the swithing and the grieving.
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Old Feb 23, 2006, 12:58 AM
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Unfortunately some adults are unable to accept the truth. They feel a need to push their problems and blame on little ones.

I am sorry this happened to you.
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