this weekend was me and boyfriends 6 month anniversary ( I know, I know, its silly to have a six month but we (i thought) were excited.

Well he usually comes over friday night and stays the night. We made plans to do that and then I was going to come over saturday for the day to his parents place, cause they have such a nice house and they are so nice.

Well now he tells me he didnt know he was coming over friday and he thought that because I was coming over saturday that he wasnt coming over friday.

I just kind of let it go, but Im really dissapointed because I had something special planned, but I dont know what to say because Im afraid he will get mad at me or think im being stupid. I mean hes usually terrific I dunno, im just sad and I feel kind of jilted



And then he says well no matter what ill call you tomorrow night, like that is supposed to make up for being here

I am just bleh. I always see him as so good to me but this made me really sad.

[SongBirdandDaisy]

Rainbowz,
did you tell him this? There are ways of expressing yourself without hurting the other persons feelings.

It does hurt when your plans are turned around. I'm sorry you feel jilted. PM if you want.
Songbird

thanks yeah I called him and told him that i would rather him jsut come over after work, but blah.
I dunno

Maybe I should show him this thread or something..
Im not very courages or assertive. I have a big problem with that.

Sigh, and I was so excited, well im still excited but, I dunno. I just arg.

[SongBirdandDaisy]

you sound very frustrated and unsure. I can understand that. I'm having trouble with mine - he kind of made fun of the littles and didn't believe that they're real - he hurt us with that - anyway.

I wish I could make your pain go away.

I dont think that hes tryin to be hurtful or anything. I think that I just get myself so worked up with being close to people because I havent had that chance in the past that special times mean alot to me, maybe more than they should.

I think i get myself so worked up about things that when it doesnt pan out, im extra dissapointed.

I dont think its his fault or that hes tryin to make me sad though or anythin.

Thanks i mostly just had to spit it out somewhere.

[SongBirdandDaisy]

I'm glad you did, Rainbowzz, sometimes I try to help too much. I just don't like to see people sad - it breaks my heart. I'm like a giant sponge.

Hope your night goes better - and have special dreams about tomorrow!
Songbird

Oh dont be sorry for helping You made me feel better, and as it turns out i am a bird brain and he was just doing that and was going to show up anyways and surprise us.

Well, I feel like a big poo poo head now

see this is what I mean, i jump to conclusions too pretty easily.

Maybe with my history I dontlike suprises i dont think.

[SongBirdandDaisy]

Rainbowzz