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Old May 07, 2006, 05:40 PM
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died and not feeling.... just empty ?
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:42 PM
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omg - Fuzzy - I'm sorry. When? OMG father
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:43 PM
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couple of days ago.... he had been ill father
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:47 PM
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I'm so sorry ((( Fuzzy ))) father
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:50 PM
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I'm so very sorry. We're here for you. PM if you need.

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Old May 07, 2006, 05:51 PM
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oh ((((((((((((((( Fuzzy )))))))))))))))))

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I'm so sorry to hear that father father
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:54 PM
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Im sorry fuzzy. I think it can be normal sometimes not to feel anything at first. I'm here for you if you need me.

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Old May 07, 2006, 06:03 PM
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Yes, I felt nothing for quite a while, fuzzy. Anything goes at a time like this, honey. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Old May 07, 2006, 06:18 PM
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Old May 07, 2006, 07:11 PM
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((((((((((((((((Fuzzy)))))))))))))) I am so sorry about your loss. You have my deeptest sympathies father father father father father
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Old May 07, 2006, 07:55 PM
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Sorry to hear that fuzzbear. father

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Old May 07, 2006, 07:58 PM
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father{{{{{{{Fuzzyfriend)))))))) father father

My thoughts and sympathies are with you.
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Old May 07, 2006, 10:52 PM
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I'm so sorry!! It's normal to not feel anything for a while. Just concentrate on being good to you, ok? My prayers are with you and your family.
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Old May 07, 2006, 11:12 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. Wishing you peaceful thoughts.
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Old May 08, 2006, 12:02 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear this, please know we are all here for you.
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Old May 08, 2006, 05:20 AM
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Thinking of you at this time Fuzzy father
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Sorry for you loss. Take good care....Lilith
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Old May 08, 2006, 02:44 PM
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thank you all! father father father
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I'm sorry to hear about your father. Don't worry about what you feel or don't feel. Feelings are not right or wrong or compulsory. What you feel is what is right for you. It is normal to dissociate from feelings when you're not ready or able to deal with them, especially for someone already skilled at dissociation. Maybe you'll be able to let them through and process them in manageable chunks. Therapy could make that a lot easier and safer. One of the times I started therapy was right after one of my grandfathers had died. That was what we started with, although it wasn't the reason I needed therapy. Maybe this would be a good place for you to start too.

PM or email me if you want to if you don't see me online.

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Old May 09, 2006, 04:32 PM
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Thank you (((((( Rap )))))) and (((((( Jan )))))))

Rap you are right, this would be a good place for me to start with a new T (I will keep you posted off board father)
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Old May 12, 2006, 09:00 AM
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(((((Fuzzypaws)))))

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PM anytime or chat, we signed out of hospital against medical advice again, so we're at home.

It's hard to feel anything at a time like this, & quite normal.
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Old May 12, 2006, 10:08 AM
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