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#51
May 17, 2006, 02:37 AM
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This isn't safe place.
I am not what you have been told. But you won't believe that either. I'm solving the problem. The problem, it has been made clear, is me. Funny that everyone is ready to believe the worst. Funny that I can be buried so easily. I thank those of you who have tried to support me, honestly and whole heartedly. I'm removing the problem now. |
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#52
May 17, 2006, 02:38 AM
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oh honey im so sorry
 if there is anything I can do let me know ok
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#53
May 17, 2006, 02:41 AM
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me neither
I just read that post above and I feel even more unsafe now
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#54
May 17, 2006, 02:44 AM
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#55
May 17, 2006, 02:49 AM
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"I am not what you have been told"
By who, Caroline? You are right, this is not a safe place
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#56
May 17, 2006, 03:04 AM
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.gif) 
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#57
May 17, 2006, 03:06 AM
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Would you like to share my umbrella fuzzy
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#58
May 17, 2006, 04:03 AM
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((((Caroline))))
You are safe here Caroline.Send me a pm if I can help. |
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May 17, 2006, 04:05 AM
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#60
May 17, 2006, 05:01 AM
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((((((((((((((((Fuzzybear))))))))))
No matter what on line group I am in there are always conflicts with other members that don't involve me - be it a misunderstanding or someone spreading gossip or someone encountering someone that they thought they could trust 100% in and later found out they could not trust that person.... So many reasons in on line support groups that give way for people to at times not feel safe in the group. Its just a part of life that not everyone and everything is going to be peachy keen 100% of the time in real life and its real people behind thse computer screnes and posts so Instead of letting someone elses experiences with their personal life, the website and / or members of the on line group bring me down to the point where I start questioning my own safety when encountering a post that someone else does not at this moment feel safe I - 1. remember that the posts are that persons feelings based on what is going on with them at that moment that they posted 2. I look at my own experience with the site and group members and base my sense of safety when in the group my only this - my experiences and not based on someone elses post from their experiencing a problem. 3. Then I give help and comfort where I can 4 then because ultimately each indiviual member of on line support groups is responsible for doing what they need to do in order for them to feel safe here (be it take a break, pm the mods and administrators, post what they feel, pm a friend and so on) I trust the person who is having a hard time will make sure they are doing ok and will take the steps so that they will soon be feeling safe here once again. In my experience PC is extremely safe and is the safest place on line that I have been to yet and I have been a part of on line groups for 5 years now. Hang in there (((((((((Fuzzy))))))) |
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#61
May 17, 2006, 05:02 AM
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Fuzzy Bear, my legenday friend,
Sometimes I think it is not safe here either but it really is. We have to remember that "feelings" are feelings and although they are real, they may have come from misinterpretted events. But, since you are feeling not safe and scared, I will stay for a bit and help.
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 "It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end.
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#62
May 17, 2006, 05:13 AM
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thanks Myself and Songbird!
I hope everyone is feeling a bit better now........ I am freaked and need to nap 
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#63
May 17, 2006, 05:24 AM
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Youre welcome.
Im off to bed soon to have a good night. 
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#64
May 17, 2006, 05:37 AM
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I'm off the WORK, Myself. You must be on the other side of the world or under it, like Australia or the Artic.
 Well, you guys have a good sleep with peaceful dreams and I'll watch the sunrise and go to work Hugs, Songbird
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#65
May 17, 2006, 05:39 AM
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Caroline,
I wasn't ignoring your post, just helping out a friend in need. I'm sorry you feel the object of someone's ******* (don't know the right word to put here. Betrayal?). I'm not so easily swayed and you have been a great friend. Please be safe, Songbird
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#66
May 17, 2006, 07:03 AM
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I don't know whats happening, but I do hope that you are ok Caroline......and I hope you're ok to Fuzzy.
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#67
May 17, 2006, 10:39 AM
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Things are feeling a bit shakey---what's up????
the constellation |
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#68
May 17, 2006, 10:42 AM
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May 17, 2006, 11:52 AM
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May 17, 2006, 01:21 PM
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((((((((((((( Gem ))))))))))))))
((((((((((( Petunia )))))))))))) I hope we can keep this thread "on track" now ... I have no wish to fight with ANYONE and have no clue what all that was about xoxo Fuzzy
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#71
May 17, 2006, 01:22 PM
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thanks to all who have been supportive to me on this thread ...
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#72
May 17, 2006, 03:00 PM
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((((fuzzy)))
are you feeling any safer? it scares us when friends don't feel safe, then we don't know if it is safe. vicki |
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#73
May 17, 2006, 03:12 PM
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I am feeling a bit safer, just been very depressed and scared lately. Lucy has been very hurt too
 Thanks for caring hon ((((( Vicki ))))))
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#74
May 17, 2006, 03:19 PM
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For Lucy .........
 you are special!!
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#75
May 17, 2006, 03:22 PM
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that is so cute!
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