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Jul 01, 2006, 10:05 PM
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I joined a while ago but then got scared.... anyway. I have DID and have a great t. But he is just that, a t. Not my saviour or my life line or Jack from 24.
One of my alters was decided to deal with a man that i was having problems with and to make a very long story short... i got raped yesterday. I am so so so i don't know. i mean sex problems are my life... but... hlep please i emailed my t but no response. i know i need to go get checked but don't want anyone to know. any advice, caring, love so needed./ Abby
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Jul 01, 2006, 10:22 PM
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OH..Abby..this is horrible..beyond words...you do need to take care of yourself..Have you called a Rape crisis line????..I am going to put a trigger icon up to my reply because I am a rape survivor as well when I was 25 and know what this can do to other survivors ..does your T have a phone number you can reach him at when emergencies arise? This is a horrible issue to have to work thru alone..I hope for you to contact at the very least a Rape Crisis worker if you cant get your T on the phone ASAP...you may be in shock..you need to have someone with you dear Abby..know that you are not alone in this...but you need to contact someone real world as soon as you can..I am so sorry..
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Jul 01, 2006, 10:26 PM
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(((((((((((( Abby ))))))))))))
Dear Abby, I am so very sorry this horrible thing has happened to you. Hon, you need to go to the Emergency Room and let the staff there and the police work with you. You must put you first. It must be horrible. I am so very, very sorry this happened. Please let us know how you do. We care. Safe hugs, Jan
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Jul 01, 2006, 10:31 PM
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Abby, I a sexual assault counselor.... Remember it was not your fault....you have to go get checked. You will need to carry the same clothes you had yesterday with you. For the purpose of DNA sampling......Contact your local sexual abuse hotline or Rainn...... you can pm me anytime....
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Jul 01, 2006, 10:37 PM
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Abby, I'm so sorry to read what's happened to you. Please visit this website:
http://www.rainn.org/what-should-i-do/index.html Just click the link and give them a call at the 800#. It won't hurt to talk with someone and will more than likely help a whole lot. You did nothing wrong and they can help you to get the help that you need. Please consider this and know that you did nothing wrong. We're here. Don't hesitate to PM. KD
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Jul 02, 2006, 12:19 AM
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I'm so sorry, gggggggggrrrrrrrrrr, no one deserves that.
 Take care of yourself and do visit crisis center etc, so others who know can help you heal from such a violation. |
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Jul 02, 2006, 01:05 AM
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very sorry this happened to you. hope you have followed above peoples postings and are saving the clothes you had on when it happened and have gotten in touch with a friend and have gone to get medical help. this is so horrible to have to deal with on top of everything else. I hope you are safe.
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Jul 02, 2006, 03:36 PM
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I agree with all the above posters. Please come back and let us know how you are doing. We are here for you
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Jul 06, 2006, 04:38 PM
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yes, agree with all that has been said. and please be kind to yourself.
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