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Old Oct 25, 2006, 04:46 PM
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We have quick therapy and group for now. Depression has went over the deep end. Right now is not the time for us to be around anyone or talk. We cannot see anything but the darkness that we are in. We are withdrawing from everyone right now. I know you all probably are thinking that this isn't a good thing for us to do. We have to do it to protect our heart. We are sinking in quick sand and there isn't anyone that can help us. It is us that has to help us. Don't know how right now, but we are all we have. This is it for now. We hope you all are ok and that things get better or are better for each of you. We only wish you peace. Bye for now.

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Old Oct 25, 2006, 05:47 PM
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Just to let you all know that the decision of quitting group and therapy isn't mine alone. Received an email from T and she said that the person that I didn't know was paying for my therapy cannot do it after October. So it isn't my decision alone.
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Old Oct 25, 2006, 05:50 PM
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I don't understand why you have to leave us but I do understand that you want to do what is best for YOU!!! Good luck wounded hearts Have done sunk big time Have done sunk big time
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Old Oct 25, 2006, 06:45 PM
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Not leaving here, leaving T and group here in RL.
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Old Oct 25, 2006, 07:03 PM
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I'm sorry to see you doing this woundedhearts.

The issues between you and T can be resolved although I understand it's hard to see that through the darkness.

Four years of being with T is not something to just walk away from, especially right now.

Why not set a goal that if she "doesn't get it" by the end of the year you'll find a new one.

But sigh. You have to do what you think is best.

Good luck.
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Old Oct 25, 2006, 07:08 PM
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Petunia, I cannot afford to pay her. That is one of the biggest issues. I was just going to take a break from it. Then got an email from her. This is what it said.

This is probably as good a time as any to take some time off from therapy and group. I have been hesitating to tell you this - your unknown benefactor who has been paying for your therapy and group for several months has told me that October is the last month they can do this. I have been hesitating to tell you this because I thought you might take this as another sign that I was rejecting you. It's not.

So see it isn't just me. I cannot afford it. Have done sunk big time Have done sunk big time Have done sunk big time

I also posted a venting one.
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Old Oct 25, 2006, 08:53 PM
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Can't you work something out with your T for payment?? After 4 yrs you have a relationship with her and she should be able to help somehow. Does she know what you are going thru now???
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Old Oct 25, 2006, 10:36 PM
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Yes she does. The thing is I cannot afford anything. My bills are already past what I make. That is why I have to turn off the phone and internet. Talked to T tonight and going to say a temporary goodbye on Friday. I was just going to say a goodbye but she says it is only temporary. Don't know what that means. Nothing is changing anytime soon here. Have done sunk big time
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(((((((((((((woundedhearts)))))))))))) Have done sunk big time Have done sunk big time Wish I had an answer. Just wanted to let you know I care.
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Old Oct 26, 2006, 11:16 AM
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Old Oct 26, 2006, 04:49 PM
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(((((((Woundedhearts)))))))))

Sorry you are in such pain and anguish, your situation is horrid and you are in my deepest thoughts...

Gentle safe hugs...

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