p. nurse

Finally saw her today - the "safety plan" was more a contract that we both had to sign for the safety of my student. It was kind of freaky, but I know i'd be in hot water if I didn't. Though I have to admit it makes (us) not want to tell her things in the future stick with "I'm fine".
It clearly stated what I would implement to create a safer atmosphere and to minimize any chances. Then had a list of things:
"Report any thoughts or intent or impulses to harm others (which there have not been any so far and nothing to report)"
"Report any new time loss or further personality strong take overs"
"Report any new confusion or any further concern about driving or operating machinery". FINE I won't be allowed to report if one takes the wheel from now on. We've a clean driving record and we all intend it to stay that way. "Or we will talk about restricting driving". NO NO NONONONONO we won't!
I don't remember what else was on there. Felt bad to have to sign it. But I know she has to cover her butt since I DID tell her these things. Blah.

Well, with all things considered, they have to keep their clients safe. What happens if a violation occurs?

Then I am to step down from my position. (Or if there were an action that I couldn't control, I could end up in jail... Or sui...)
New t is slowly working to get to know my wolf alter and see how to possibly change her instincts of when she feels backed into a corner or reacts to quick movement. Alter is a but resentful towards new t and myself. But I can't take chances. I guess the question must be asked "why now?" I've worked with kids in some capacity for around 30 years. Why can't she suppress the reaction to bite now? What changed? Time to journal. I may just have to "retire" this June.

Awww. That sux. I hate it when things happen beyond my control. I hope that it works out for you.

So far I am managing with having the child sit where I can see her movements so they are not a surprise to 10. I am also taking an Ativan before each session. I think this is helping, and is a good safety plan. Plus I was taken off the medication that pnurse thinks might have destabilized me to begin with.

From my experience having a change in medication may end up in "things" not being locked up as tight, therefore the emergence of the other part(s).

I am so sorry that things are like this for you. I am glad you have found something that is working. Hoping you can stay safe.

(((((((( Kiya ))))))))

thanks you guys....
and I'm now with a good counselor who can "see" us behind my mask... haven't had that in over a year (with Colleen). Day two, and she was like "What did they just say? That didn't go over well, did it?" @_@ yike. later: "Oh there's a lot of anger there...."
oh man. No more 'hiding in plain sight' for us.

Tho with pnurse, now some feel like they can't tell her things.... which means I will have to be even more vigilant in our day to day lives. (as well as with p.nurse's very good prying questions.... ugh. See her again in two weeks - 22 is ready to sew up my mouth if need be.... They're also thinking of just taking off - driving along the coast for a month or something. HELLO! I WORK, PEOPLE! omg.

It sounds like this counselor is very intuitive. I never know if that a good thing or bad either. Hopefully more and more or your alts will be able to trust and not run away.

yeah.... I hope so too.
can I just cancel with pnurse next week? I dunno what to tell her anymore. "fine. i'm fine. just fine. ok bye".