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Apr 30, 2017, 06:03 PM
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She's set to arrive in 2 weeks.
How long will she stay? Not long I hope. Kinda fearing/dreading it. This is going to be real interesting. The system is still out to lunch on this. Just gotta do it. :/ |
 dlantern, elevatedsoul, Solnutty, TrailRunner14, unaluna
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May 01, 2017, 01:38 AM
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Why is she coming?
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#3
May 01, 2017, 06:27 AM
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We havent seen her but once or twice for an hour each in 30 years- there is a reason for all that.
But here she comes by airplane in two weeks. This is going to be so triggery, that's all being she literally had a hands on approach when we were a child. Some if us do like her.... some of us don't. Omg...the anxiety is brewing just thinking about it...trying to picture how this is going to be....way too many scenerios to be had..... System upheaval. |
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May 01, 2017, 02:07 PM
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I feel for you. I was a caregiver for my mom (a part emerged to handle that), but now that she's in a nursing home I can't bear to go see her. My family, except maybe my younger sister, has no idea what my mom was like when no one else was around. Going to see her is just too hard, but I know eventually we'll have to do our daughterly duty. At least one of us loves her. Some are afraid and others angry or indifferent. Maybe my T can help me get ready for a visit that doesn't cause too much fallout, but I can't see how that would work right now.
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| Anonymous48690, unaluna
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May 01, 2017, 09:06 PM
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This is going to go...or not go....well.
Oh well so what. So has my life. Poke me with a fork I'm so done....lol |
| elevatedsoul, TrailRunner14, unaluna
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#6
May 07, 2017, 10:21 AM
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Oh God....she isn't even here yet and she's started with the poor her trip over the phone.
She requested a certain airline which I bought tickets from for her....and now she wants another airline closer to her. Come to find out the tickets are nonrefundable.....and how is she possibly even going to get to it? Even writing this now has got the anxiety red lining.... Deep breaths....changing the subject in 3....2....1.... |
| Gr3tta_0, unaluna
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#7
May 17, 2017, 10:36 PM
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She's here....so far so sorta good.
Scared....unsure...hopeful....inner fighting....drinking..... |
| Amyjay, anais_anais, Solnutty, yagr
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#8
May 18, 2017, 05:07 PM
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We just spent our day together...and we had fun..so far! Nvm the small telling me what to do tidbits I just ignore....
Anyways....she can't get along none with my other 3 siblings, so...... Fingers are crossed that things don't go trigger wrong. 
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#9
May 18, 2017, 06:18 PM
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Quote:
I'm so glad that things are going better than you were anticipating!! You've been on my mind. 
__________________
"What is denied, cannot be healed." - Brennan Manning "Hope knows that if great trials are avoided, great deeds remain undone and the possibility of growth into greatness of soul is aborted." - Brennan Manning |
| Anonymous48690
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May 18, 2017, 06:43 PM
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We just sat here and we candidly talked about our experiences and things in the past and she's like being non-judgemental- yet.
It feels good. I hate it when things feels good.....it always goes south and then I feel like I was living under an embarrassing delusion. But it's all good.
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