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Mar 30, 2008, 08:41 AM
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Dont post often, havent for awhile. Have a wonderful T. After 4 years, i am working on, my choice, what is real or not. This is pertaining to my "hiding places" i have inside so that i dont have to actually remember the bad things that got me here. I think I have realized that i kept the good things from childhood and combined them with "the i wish it was real things" to make up safe places and people to be in and with". For some reason it is extremely important to me to know the "real" from the real? I still have horrable nightmares, lost time, ect. I also find that the places that used to be safe for me arent anymore, because when i start to go to these safe havens, i think of why i made them, and cant go there without those memories intruding.
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Mar 30, 2008, 08:46 AM
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Sounds to me as though you are getting some good insights.
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Mar 30, 2008, 08:57 AM
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Sometimes yes, though it seems like forever at times. thank you
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Mar 30, 2008, 09:09 AM
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> it seems like forever at times
Doesn't it though? !!!
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Mar 30, 2008, 11:10 AM
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It sounds like you are on your way to healing. I am glad that you have a supportive t to help you along the way. The memories are hard. You may have to decide whether you will one day confront them or keep them hidden from yourself. That is a personal decision only you can make. I am glad you are making progress.
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Mar 31, 2008, 11:00 PM
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that bites that the safe places are now places for memories - but pachy's right - good insights. hope you can come up with new safe places that really are real.
 kiya
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