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May 09, 2008, 02:32 AM
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 the crazy son has been arrested for breaching an intervention order  we went to court once before about a thing like this & finally the magistrate ruled that the son was not capable of understanding the nature of an intervention order  this didn't stop them issuing another one  he could get anything up to 2 years gaol time & he has no idea what he did wrong  oh, pooh, we shouldn't be posting this here, oh no we're in the gardeen are we int he gardens / akh delete us 7 put us out of our miserry
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May 09, 2008, 03:03 AM
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we rang the case worker & asked if we'd have to have him suppoenaded
 last time we couldn't get the one to go to court but the time before that we did have one in the court & he did fix it it is not good for an angry klike me to deal with theose peoples the garden isn't for angries but we are kinda confused now & we are lost & we don't know what to do & me, Raven, is bnot good with people
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May 09, 2008, 09:38 AM
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Raven and others, it is okay to vent here in the Garden, you are safe here
these fears need to be washed out your doing fine Angie
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May 09, 2008, 04:11 PM
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You are ok to vent. We all know that sometimes you just have to get stuff out to feel better.
Sorry to hear about the son. That is not fair. I hope it gets figured out soon. (((((Raven, Zorah and the others))))) BJ
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May 13, 2008, 11:14 PM
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(((((((((((((((((Zorahs)))))))))))))))
How are you doing? I'm sorry to hear about your son. Were you able to get some help? Hang in there.  
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May 14, 2008, 08:47 PM
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(((((((((((((zorah, raven)))))))))))
kiya
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May 16, 2008, 03:07 AM
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the case worker is on leave, ggggggggggggrrrrrrrrrrrr & he's only been the son's case worker for less than a month they say all the relevant records have been archived, HONESTLY WHY ????? WHY????? HE Isn't DEAd. This must be wrong we wish we could afford a really expensive lawyer who'd have their %#@&#! balls
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May 20, 2008, 08:14 AM
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((((((((((((((((((Zorah)))))))))))))))
Are things getting any better? I know it's hard when our children are struggling, but please take care of you while all this is going on.
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May 20, 2008, 11:27 AM
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((((((((((((( Zorahs )))))))))))))))
Thinking of you, friends for ever, Fuzzy 
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May 20, 2008, 01:54 PM
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(((Zorahs)))
hope you're ok 
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May 21, 2008, 05:00 AM
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ok, the son was re-admitted to acute care tonight, about bloody time they absolutely PROMISED they would keep him there this time, until they can stabilize him on the meds, they won't DO that, they NEVER do that they are going to let him DIE before he gets decent treatment
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May 21, 2008, 05:24 AM
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(((((((((((((zorahs))))))))))))))
sorry you are having to deal with all the same problems over and over again, please look after your self as well
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May 21, 2008, 05:34 AM
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they just rang to say he's escaped from the ward  they're HOPELESS, we TOLD them he's scaled that wall before, it must be in their damn RECORDS, jeezus %#@&#!, we are gonna contact the medical ombudsman
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May 21, 2008, 07:40 AM
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Oh ((((((((((((((((((Zorah)))))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry. So very sorry. I hope they can find him and get him to a safe place soon. I understand a mother's heart when a child is struggling. Please take care of yourself as you can and stay safe. Thank you for letting us know how things are going. You are in my thoughts.
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May 21, 2008, 01:26 PM
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well, they got him back to the ward  but thy aren't too good at keeping him threre
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May 21, 2008, 03:29 PM
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I'm so glad they found him and got him back to a safe place. Hopefully they will keep better care of him now and be more watchful.
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May 21, 2008, 05:32 PM
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((((((((((((((zorah)))))))))))))))
i agree you need to take of you first, also maybe the medical ombudsman or someone like that might listen seeing as the hosp dont listen to you
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May 22, 2008, 11:57 AM
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((((Z))))))))) ive read the thread up to date, such caring good friends here for your support... i feel very concerned for you as well and hope this is all going to work out somehow... sometimes we have no clue and little hope for help and dont know where a scary thing is going to end up at.. you are very bright, very strong, very caring for your son... i know the tears and pain you've felt has been necessary for you to endure as you've cared for your son in this ordeal... know that we all here do care so much for you and will do all we are able to be your friends now...
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May 22, 2008, 11:58 AM
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((((((((((((((Zorah))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
My friend, please take care of you I know how hurtful this is to you Know that I care It is so fustrating to get ppl to see I know you are a good mom and have done all you can protect you please keep yourself safe muffy you matter so much
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May 23, 2008, 10:22 AM
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thinking of you Zorah...
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May 23, 2008, 11:24 AM
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dear friends, we couldn't survive without you
your posts & PMs keep us from despair 
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May 23, 2008, 11:44 AM
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(((((((((((((zorah)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
you matter so much 
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May 23, 2008, 12:50 PM
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(((((((((((((((Zorah)))))))))))) We care about you and are glad you're here.
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May 23, 2008, 01:05 PM
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((((((((((((( Zorah )))))))))))))))
what muffy said
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May 23, 2008, 04:33 PM
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oh, this all sounds so upsetting for you. thinking of you
i really hope things start to improve and he gets proper care. warm thoughts being sent your way ~ ~ ~
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.  Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there. Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so. 
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