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Aug 26, 2008, 04:36 PM
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puts... all others in a very bad situation... in which they are seriously physically hurt and potential for loss..of more..
do you forgive that alter? what would you all do?? please tell me.. thank you..freewill |
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Aug 26, 2008, 05:19 PM
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protect yourself freewill, if there are parts of you that are to survive, let the other parts help all of them at the same time, so basically i'm saying love and care for your co-operating parts, keep them safe, then circle around after you're in a better place and help the wounded one..
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Aug 26, 2008, 05:20 PM
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((((((((((( freewill )))))))))))))
If you had a loved one outside of your system who was ill and made bad choices in the same realm, would you find it in you to forgive them as well as offer them validation, acceptance, love and compassion? Would you be able to realize and consider that this loved one needed assistance and would you do whatever you could to help them experience that which would help them in turn learn to make better and safer choices for themselves? If the answer is yes, could you turn that same forgiveness, validation, acceptance, love and compassion inside? You are a loving soul....you are a wonderful woman.....you deserve to give to yourself and your system that which you share with others in your life. Much love & respect  sabby |
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Aug 26, 2008, 07:13 PM
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My t told me to tell the alter that is giving me the trouble that if she comes out she is not allowed to hurt herself or others. It works sometimes. It only works if I have time to talk before she comes out.
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 WHATEVER HAPPENED IN THE PAST AND HOW HURT WE WERE, WE ARE ALWAYS AND FOREVER STRONGER THAN WE KNOW. WE'VE OVERCOME A GREAT DEAL AND SOMETIMES DON'T EVEN SEE IT. BUT WE HAVE. NO MATTER WHAT, REMEMBER ALWAYS , YOU MATTER!
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Aug 27, 2008, 04:24 AM
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Yes, I'd say you need to forgive that alter - she is part of you and you are part of her. Most likely she has been trained by her abusers to continue on what they began. See her as victimized and needing to learn proper self-care. She needs to learn how to handle her feelings and fears and anger. She can learn that from other parts of you and from your T if you have one.
I've had some fights with parts of myself that were hostile to each other and needed to learn that we can't take our feelings out on other parts - it is not their fault, its the abusers faults. Hope you two can communicate and get closer.  Leslie and the pixies
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