do you ever Not know your

physical age???? and does that bother you... I have had to look at drivers liencese so that I could fill out dr's forms...

freewill's alter... here..

and does it bother you.. when the other alter's... fold towels differently than you... it does me..

and.. host.. is healing....

(((((((((((((( freewill & others )))))))))))))))))

I can't comment on the age thing...but I can say that I understand how when someone does something differently from me in the house, I get a little irritated myself. But I always remind myself that there is always more than one good way to do something...and that helps me to calm down a bit. Hey, at least the others are folding the towels right? I think I would be more upset if they didn't help

I am so very glad to hear that host is healing. I hope you are all healing.....getting better every single day.


sabby

I never know my age, lol. When someone asks me my age, I always tell them the year I was born and let them figure it out because I'm never sure of the year now either. As for me, it doesn't bother me. T and I talked about this once and realized it was kind of a blessing because I don't really worry about things like getting older a lot of the time. I just kind of go along as I am. Age is relative.

As far as things getting done differently, that's always happened and so I guess I don't worry about that either. I've never had control of how things are done in my life and so I guess I don't expect that things will be done how I want them. I don't know that I even have a preference. I guess it's from past programming and not having been allowed to ever have a say in things but it does make things more amicable now I think.

I just met with my new T for the first time today, and I let my violent alter speak to her. I didn't intervene because I thought it was important for him to expirience it himself,

But my last name is G---- and he kept insisting that his lastname was Casil.

It was funny and cute, but at the same time difficult because the therapist almost wrote down my last name on a form as Casil. But she realised he was just unaware of the situation.

But yes, it is hard sometimes, said alter also likes to dump everything I own onto the floor. No matter how often I clean or organize, the moment he comes out, he decides to dump everything. It's annoying. People think I'm a slob.

Also, some of my alters think they are older than I am. And some (this is common) are younger and insist on their age.

I usually avoid situations, where my idenity is used, I should talk to my T about that.

Good luck with this.