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Apr 01, 2009, 07:37 AM
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Hi. Thanks so much for the thoughts and advice I have recieved in the last week. They have helped. Sabrina is behaving and so is Katrina(except she went and had my hair cut). That was a shock when I woke up this morning and had about 3 inches gone. My mom said she would not shut up so she took me just to make her hush. She appoligized for doing it but she also said "you know how she is when she wants something done to her appearance and it was either take her and have it done or she threatened to do it herself, and I knew you would be mad then." So my hair has went from almost to my bra strap to 3or 4 inches past my shoulders. OMG my hair is gone. Katrina excuse was that it had dead ends and was tired of looking at it. And on top of that they rounded instead of going striaght across so my sides are shorter and frame my face. Oh well, it does look ok. But she still should have talked to me before going over my head.
 Besides that everything seems to be quiet and relaxed. Just wondering if it isn't the calm before the storm?
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Apr 01, 2009, 04:04 PM
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revel in the quiet now hon...it may seem like the calm b4 the storm, but it may just b a time made specially 4 u...hope that the rest of the day goes better...btw...remember that hair does grow back
 i hope u rnt too upset with it...abbi of jewels 
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Apr 01, 2009, 06:07 PM
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even a calm before a storm can be gorgeous.
Working on communication is always good, have you tried a journal before? Maybe a place where both you and inner parts can write can help. 
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Apr 02, 2009, 10:35 AM
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Yeah, we keep a journal, sometimes that is the only communication we have. Like now, Sabrina refuses to talk at all because I am stopping her from messing up my relationship, because of what she wants. My body will have no part in it. I am no cheater and she is trying to hook up with someone else. So we aren't talking and she is not ( at least I am trying ) to coming out. I don't think it is a very good idea for her to be out and neither does Katrina so she got over voted. She has caused my blood pressure to go up her and my cat this. Who this morning escaped put the house and is in heat, and can't find. I'd say it's calm around here.
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Apr 03, 2009, 06:03 AM
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I remember once having my hair cut. I don't remember getting it cut, but when I saw it, it was a 70s style hair cut (it was in early 2000) and it triggered me so much. I don't know if I got the hair cut done on purpose when dissociated or that it just turned out that way, but looking at it sure made me dissociate. T said I was struggling a lot because of it. I'm kind of glad I don't have any memory of it, but even the thought of certain hair cuts really bother me and make me nervous.
I'm glad things are calm for now.
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