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Apr 28, 2009, 08:25 PM
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I have a part that is an abuser.......
Had T today and my T worked with this part... it didn't go well. Now this part is abusing me and taking his anger out on me........ T called and made an agreement with him..... he won't hurt me if T didn't bother us for 1 week...... He is not following his part of the agreement...... Scared to ask for help from T again..... I have no protectors inside.....they are all scared of him......... not sure what to do at this point.......I don't want to be hurt anymore....... I didn't do anything wrong..... |
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#2
Apr 28, 2009, 09:07 PM
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((((((Pooh)))))
It's ok to call T again. If you are not safe it is the thing to do. Being and feeling safe are priorities. 
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Apr 28, 2009, 10:53 PM
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I agree with WI, Pooh....
 If this part's behavior is causing you to harm yourself and feel unsafe, getting and keeping yourself safe are the priorities. It is okay to call your T. Maybe your T can work with other parts instead of him and help them stand up for their safety. I will sit with you to help you through!!
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Apr 28, 2009, 11:01 PM
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agree with the above posts
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Apr 29, 2009, 10:31 AM
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((((Poohbear))))
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Apr 29, 2009, 12:05 PM
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I too agree with above posts Poohbear, call your T.
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#7
Apr 29, 2009, 12:07 PM
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Agree, it's okay to call. You count, your well-being counts and it matters. I've got lots of persecutors, so I get what you're experiencing. They live in the past and are afraid to change, but they can. You have my support and warm caring.
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Apr 29, 2009, 09:24 PM
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I have been emailing my T back and forth all day. I will see her tomorrow morning. I hope some progress is made with this part tomorrow. I don't know if I can take anymore.
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Apr 30, 2009, 10:49 AM
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 poohbear,i had parts whose job was to keep me quiet through threats or mistreatment. somehow this part must feel threatened by your getting help. when i could understand that my mean alters had been doing what they did to help me (not that i am saying it is ok to hurt you, but it was their job and they used to do it to keep you safe from abusers). at some point your T maybe able to help you and this part come to an agreement and this part may become a protector instead of one who hurts you. i'm sorry it is so bad and scary just now. hugs, leslie and pixies
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