V-day separation ):

This sucks so bad. our marriage of almost 15 years. 3 months ago I would have thought we'd grow old together. I don't really want to get into details, but I'm pretty depressed. Feeling so alone right now.

Finished off a bottle of wine. Feeling no better. ):

I"m separated from my wife, valentines day was hard. I got her some things and barely got a thank you. I wish I had something to say to make you feel better. Just throwing it out there...you're not alone.

sorry to hear. I don't think there are any words.

Valentines day is rough for those of us that are going through separation and divorce. I took myself to a movie and had a great time! And I didn't feel self conscious at all...I am used to doing social things by myself, hence my separation!

Anyway, I am sory that you, and all of us, are going through this. Is can be very painful and confusing. Take care and (((Hugs))).

Valentines day sucked for me too. I went for a walk, it was a beautiful evening and the sun was setting over the sea. I have never seen so many couples out. Then I went to get lots of strawberries and a cheesecake for my daughter. I don't even like Valentines. What is helping me is going to meet up groups. There are so many of us lonely alone people around - not on Valentines day at the beach. I am getting lots of hugs from people and dates and offers of sex. I just want hugs and coffee dates right now and to practice speaking to different people. It is really nice when someone is interested in what I have to say, how I look, and has a different take on life. My ex thought he had who I was indexed and programmed and highlighted with all my deficiencies. It was like stepping into an alternate reality speaking to him. There is a nice simple friendly world out there. Come join me.

i am sorry you all had a bad day!!!Mine was ok i have husband and son, but it is not such a big deal for me to get a valentines gift if fact i didn't because of the weather. i hope you feel better.

I had a bad Valentine's day too. Me and the significant other were suppose to road trip to Florida. Spend a week on the beach. Not only was I sick, but halfway there I discover texts from him to another woman. It was a long car ride back. You at not alone. Humor gets me by sometimes. A friend of mine just told me the other day, "just piss and crap on them all. All of them! Because that's what they do to you." of course I could never be that way but I sure as heck feel like it.

Sorry to hear. I do feel for you tho. Mine fell in love with another woman.

Sorry to hear that you all had a bad Valentines day. My boyfriend dumped me on Friday 13th with no real reasons to give me. I went to the hockey match I was supposed to go with him and enjoyed that his team lost so bad, haha.
Well, I'm still confronted to loneliness, right now. Valentines day is not that important to me. Also, my boyfriend let me know that he wanted me to hold him from his decision but I just told him I did not want this but I respect his decision. It was on Monday. After Valentines Day. Since then, he ignores me. My therapist told me that he avoided the V-Day because he felt bad with it. Usually, when the relationship is going good between two people, you want to spend it together and share, not being apart. So, he suggested that he avoided that day and after that, he told me he wanted me to hold him because V-Day was finally gone... Bizarre.

I did something really funny, though. I printed 2 male characters from my favorite TV show... I know! Let me explain, haha.
I can focus now on the things I am looking for into a man. I realized that I need some things and he could not provide it to me. Like communication or respect or passion.

Ahhh, love, love, love. I wish you all to find peace.