[cheryl78]

Yes, he left me just last Thursday night. I am still shocked he is gone. This was my 3rd marriage. I want to pour out my heart, he is so shut down. Today is the first day, I have not even heard boo from him. At first I was all texting and calling then Sunday, he threatened me if I contacted anyone in his family again. Then Monday, he said he will give me money for u-haul or I can use it for rent this month, but that is it. Today heard nothing. He is an alcoholic. I hate saying it like that, because I do love him. I think I am so lost in shock, I am not wanting to cry, and I do not want to make any more stupid emotional mistakes. It is just hurting and I am sick of hurting. I came to SC to be happy and to start a new life with him. Now he is gone. What the hell??

[Skeezyks]

Hello cheryl78: I'm sorry such great sadness has come into your life. Hopefully coming here to PC can be of some comfort & support. I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!

[eyesclosed]

Abandoning your spouse should be a crime. I had the same thing done too me and go ahead and cry I still do out of anger. This is a time to build a support network around you. Thanks for coming here.

[Lost_in_the_woods]

(((HUGS and TEARS)))

[Unrigged64072835]

So sorry that this happened to you. (((((hugs)))))

[Wantmyhusbandback]

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Hugs