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Old Dec 20, 2016, 08:39 AM
TishaBuv TishaBuv is offline
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"Work shy" that's a good one! My grandpa used to say "Too light for heavy work, and too heavy for light work". Why should he work? Sure, because he found a woman willing to work for him! Thank you for giving this man a dose of reality.

I'm glad you are feeling good and empowered now. His lobbying all your family to try to turn them against you is really low of him. I'm glad it didn't work.
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Old Dec 20, 2016, 01:42 PM
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Tish & Nammu thank you both sooo much. You are both lifesavers
So today hes called my parents, all my siblings and their spouses as well as work colleagues and left messages on both my personal mobile and on call mobile.
My younger brother bless him is fantastic. Together we had a 3 way phone discussion with my lawyer who's written him a letter stating exactly why I left and what would have to occur for me to even consider going back - your idea Nammu .
The conditions for me returning are, he sees a psychiatrist and does as directed but given in this country he can refuse all treatment we have asked for his diagnosis so he cant say the shrink has said theres nothing wrong with him. He also needs to see any therapist as directed and needs to find work. Hes work shy and doesnt see why he should work so wont. However its putting the ball in his court so we can say he chose not to save the marriage. Hes always blamed me for everything this way I am not to blame.
Feels sooo much better! ��

Good for you!
So glad your younger brother is there for you. Yup, he's getting worried now and it's starting to hit him that his life will change. Any more acting out on his part will do no good. I hope you put in the papers that any more attempts to use suicide as a manipulator will void all possibly of getting back together. This is great work on your part!
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