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Old Dec 17, 2014, 06:57 PM
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lost, I'm glad to hear your daughter has maintained her high school friendships and has a local boyfriend. It sounds as if she's trying to maintain some stability in her life.

I hope you and the rest of your family enjoy the rest of the holiday season and don't allow the absence of your one daughter to blight the time you spend together. Hang in there. Your daughter is alive and well, even if she's still wanting to stay distant. As long as she's safe, it means prayers are being answered.
Thank you , as always, for your kindness. I never thought it would be this long and I would make it. I do believe prayers are being answered and she is physically safe. I can't help but worry. This is difficult for my whole family. I am trying desperately to hang in there. The T also says she shows positive signs of normalcy but worries herself about my daughter's possible delusions of reality. Because she doesn't talk and she is highly reactive and secretive, the thought is that there might be something more going on with my daughter or transference of reality of the coach. It is hard to know. We will try our new plan of contact and low anxiety, well written dialog to have my daughter question her own actions and possibly her motives. We were told NEVER mention the coach to her directly.
Please have a peaceful and love filled holiday! We will try too.
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Old Dec 17, 2014, 08:19 PM
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I feel for your and I pray she comes back.
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Old Dec 17, 2014, 11:29 PM
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I feel for your and I pray she comes back.
Prayers, I believe are powerful.. Thank you. I also pray we can help her the way she needs. We are so confused as to what's going on it is hard to know what to do. We are a family of 7 adn extended family of 46 people. It will take her a strong effort to come back into the fold.

I do not think she realizes how easy it could be for her. There is enough love and forgiveness for her.
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Old Jan 05, 2015, 05:58 PM
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Well it is the new year. My daughter still has not reached out to us but she continues to message her Aunt. Nobody knows exactly what is going on. We do not know how, or why, or if there is any reason for this estrangement. Our therapist is confused. I guess we wait until maturity kicks in. Now with the spring semester staring, she may not be returning home until summer. I can't wait to see her.
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Old Jan 05, 2015, 08:46 PM
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When i was a young teen I did similar things. I can tell you this... The one thing I wanted was to feel loved and supported from my family. Just keep an open mind and be there to catch her if she falls.
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Old Jan 18, 2015, 10:05 PM
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When i was a young teen I did similar things. I can tell you this... The one thing I wanted was to feel loved and supported from my family. Just keep an open mind and be there to catch her if she falls.
I only want to be there for her. I am just terrified (anxiety ridden) that she made life so hard for her that she is hurting herself . She has tremendous support from family but refuses..thus far.. to ask for help.

I just want to love her the right way.
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Old Jan 25, 2015, 06:39 PM
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I hope you're doing okay, lost. I wish you well in the New Year and continue to have gratitude for your daughter's safety.

Take Care.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 09:39 AM
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I hope you're doing okay, lost. I wish you well in the New Year and continue to have gratitude for your daughter's safety.

Take Care.
Thanks, I wish you great new possibilities for peace this new year.

All communication has stopped with my daughter. We are not sure what has changed. Hopefully she will find courage to reach out before her situation completely overwhelms her. WE are just waiting
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