I hate Trust Issues.

I have trust issues. Like my friend told and I know and I have been having this annoying trouble for a while. I want to help my friends and be nicer, but I can't. I get really angry at certain people, whether they are friends or not. I read a few article about trust issues and I'm still not sure if I have it or not. I could be that I just really hate my friends? I don't want that. I do not want to go to a psychiatrist because my mother would have to pay for and NO. So what should I do?

Hello 135bobby, welcome to Psych Central.

Being aware that you have trust issues is a good step as it means you can work on it. Often people have trust issues because they have been hurt badly in the past and are protecting themselves by not trusting anyone else. The fear of getting hurt again can stop us forming lasting friendships. I can't tell you that you will never be hurt again but you are better off trying to trust in the first place and having friends.

So, be aware that you naturally have trust issues so that you can work on it. Share your feelings with your friends and be honest with them. Think about why you fear trusting people and ask yourself if it is likely and then try trusting and enjoying your friendships.

Being angry at certain people is normal for all of us. I would worry if you never felt anger.

Trust issues are calm for myself also. I believe this could be one of the most common themes! Trying to understand why is the hard part for most of us.

Good Luck