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Old May 15, 2010, 04:59 AM
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A good day is when I accomplish something I wanted/needed to.

In another way, it's also a good day when my issues don't overwhelm me to a point which I find unbearable.

The best days involve both.
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Old May 15, 2010, 06:42 AM
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Lovely thread.

A good day is one that I get to spend with my husband. Alone.
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Old May 15, 2010, 06:59 AM
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Thank you for posting, and I hope you have many bright days ahead when you accomplish much and that your days are never imbearable. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 15, 2010, 07:02 AM
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Thank you dear friend for answering and I hope there are many days ahead that you and your husband spend together alone. How romantic and sweet. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 15, 2010, 03:06 PM
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Well, I did report that I finally got some sleep...now the rest of the day is me trying to hold onto my positive attitude......haven't been doing too well...

but I hope to report it ended well...theo
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Old May 15, 2010, 04:57 PM
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A good day is when the thought police have not appropriated my inbox.
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Old May 15, 2010, 06:05 PM
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I hope you had a great day and that your evening will be as well. For that matter the whole weekend.

Thank you for posting and I am glad that someone was able to sleep!!!!

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Old May 15, 2010, 06:08 PM
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Thank you for your post. I hope the thought police did not take over today. (to be honest I had to look up the word appropriated before I could answer this post)(I know I know stupid)

I hope you have a wonderful weekend my friend. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 15, 2010, 06:26 PM
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A good day is when there are NO political or religious agendas forced on us at PC.
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Old May 15, 2010, 06:32 PM
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A good day for me is when I am willing to walk through the pain and to listen quietly and get a lightbulb moment when I can finally understand something that is important for me to get so I can move forward towards healing.
darkpurplesecrets,
I could not have said it better. I feel just this way too.

... a good day also includes giving the cat a brushing, exercising, and making coffee in my favorite little stovetop coffee pot.
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Old May 15, 2010, 06:51 PM
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Thank you my dear friend. May that continue to happen here. Sometimes we cannot control what others do but we can have the control on how we chose to react. I hear you.

Hope you had a great day and that you are feeling beter with everyday that passes. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 15, 2010, 06:56 PM
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Thank you for posting and yes you are right. I have to say that I could not say that just a few short months ago, but I can now. So many times someone can tell me something many times but until I sit quietly and listen and that lightbulb comes on it is then that I can get it and make the change. And when I can make the change it will last for it is for me and I can see what I needed to see all along but somehow could not until it was time.

I hope you got your cat a brushing and your exercise in. And when it is all said and done that you will sit quietly and enjoy that cup of coffee from your favorite stovetop coffee pot.

Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.
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Old May 16, 2010, 12:58 PM
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When I can feel okay in my own skin.......
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Old May 16, 2010, 01:21 PM
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When good things happen to others.
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Old May 16, 2010, 03:24 PM
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A good day is when I'm not so busy that I work through the night & actually have a chance to sleep & wake up the next morning.

A good day is waking up on those mornings after a good night's sleep & when I do that first move of my body before actually waking up & my 3 dogs notice that move. They all pile on top of me with kisses & nudges wanting to be petted & hugged & snuggled with & I can just lay there with them for awhile enjoying their special love.

A good day is one when I actually get something accomplished on my "to do" list rather than just "worked on", ah, that sense of accomplishment really feels good.

A good day is when I have the time to spend several hours studying God's word to read those things that help me have the peace that helps me get through the day & learn something about God that I hadn't realized before.

A good day is when I am actually on time for the places I need to be at.....which means that nothing has gone wrong or has distracted me from getting the things done that I need to get done before leaving (always seems that something unexpected comes up, or I am in slow motion from being too tired).

A good day is when we go out trail riding through the woods & seeing all of God's beauty surrounding me & not having any horse accidents when we are riding. Nobody falls off or gets bucked off or we have equipment failure (oops, the saddle slid around the horses belly even after tightening the girth & ending up underneath the horse instead of ontop)

A good day is when it ends up being a rainy day & I can work on the things indoors that need to be worked on. It's a good rainy day when I remember to close the windows before the downpour hits. The other day, I was downstair working in the kitchen when the rain came pouring down. I stood there for a couple of minutes watching the beauty & then remembered that my bedroom windows were wide open (that has happened too many times to count I am learning about KY weather slowly)

A good day is when I learn something new or I have had a chance to experience something new.

A good day is when I don't misplace my truck keys, or my cell phone especially when I am running late to make it to an appointment or other planned activity. Or when I don't misplace my daily planner that has all my plans & activities written down for the day. But then, a good day is when I loose something & look all over the place for it & the I end up looking at the first place that I looked & there it is.

A good day is when I bake a cake or other yummies & forget that I had them in the oven & come back the next morning to a perfectly baked cake (ah, the joys of having an oven with a shut off feature & a oven that cools off quick enough to make the shut off feature work well). I have done this several times & was shocked every time to end up without having a disaster.

Come to look at it, almost every day is a good day no matter what really happens because no matter what happens, I try to find the good in it & figure out what I have learned & the wonders I have experienced.

DPS, I related to your matching socks the other morning.....I was running late to help haul the horses for our 4-H group trail ride......I had done my laundry & had it piled in the laundry basket & took all the socks out & put them into another pile. The 2 socks I took out were light blue, but not the same light blue. It took me several more minutes to find the right match (promised myself that I would take the first sock I found of the 2 to make that my pair)
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Old May 16, 2010, 08:33 PM
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A good day is when my son hugs me and says he loves me.

A good day is when you spend it with the one you love.

A good day is when I don't feel overwhelmed by things.

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Old May 17, 2010, 08:19 AM
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A good day is when my son wakes me and says here is your coffee, mom.
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Old May 17, 2010, 08:28 AM
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A good day is reading this thread everyday, and coming here to get outside of my own "stinkin thinkin": to realize that others are truly living life to the fullest.
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Old May 17, 2010, 03:24 PM
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A good day is when dining results in eating more food than whiskers.
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Old May 18, 2010, 02:35 AM
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((((Theodora))))

I hope that your days are filled where you feel okay in your own skin. I know that many times it is so hard as I know that I wish I did not have to be in mine. You are you and we are thankful for you and what you are. We accept you for you and look forward to hearing from you on this thread.

Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 18, 2010, 02:37 AM
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We also have a good day when good things happen to others. It is always good to hear good things when the world is already so full of bad and hurtful things. May each one be blessed with good. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 18, 2010, 02:47 AM
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Thank you for answering and for all the things that make it a good day for you. I hope you got a good nights sleep and that your dogs were able to wake you up. I have heard those kisses and nudges are great.

I hope you get your to do list accomplished and that you have time to study as you would like to. I know the feeling of being on time and not having something step in the way of making it.

I really hope you do not end up beneath the horse too often that could be quite scary. I do remember trying to get the saddle on the right way so it would not slip but sometimes that is a little difficult.

I find that working on things inside is great but rainy days I tend to want to sleep as the rain just makes it feel like one of those days. And learning something new is great.

I wish I would not misplace things and then already have passed it up several times being in a hurry and overlooking it again. I have never heard of an oven that shuts itself off and cools quickly. That is really cool. And good for you for if it was me I would have burnt down the house by now.

I think you have a point in trying to see the good in every day, sometimes it is hard but there is always something to be thankful for at some point. Thank you for reminding me of that.

As far as the socks, I do understand. For some reason I have to have matching socks whether anyone knows it or not I do. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 18, 2010, 02:51 AM
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Thank you my dear friend for posting. I hope your days shine and that you are not overwhelmed by things and you spend them with the one you love. And it is great when your kids hug you and tell you they love you. They grow up way too fast and sometimes they think they get too old for that. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 18, 2010, 02:52 AM
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Thank you for posting. I hope your days are filled with your son saying here's your coffee mom, I think that is so sweet. Sending gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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Old May 18, 2010, 02:55 AM
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((((Theodora))))

I thank you for coming here each day and I look forward to reading and seeing what others are thankful for and the good that they have. It does brighten my day too. Thank you for coming Theo and I hope to see you more. May you have a wonderful day today. Sending you gentle hugs and loving thoughts. Always.

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