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Old Oct 13, 2010, 07:36 PM
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the last time i cried was three days ago when people were bullying me on live journal, making fun of my spelling when i worte a post asking for advice on a family sitiuation. what hurt me so much is that i was asking for help about a very nerve wercking problem and all i got was a bunch of trolls making fun of my spelling.

when was the last time you cried?

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Old Oct 13, 2010, 07:43 PM
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Maybe the people were making fun of your spelling because they didn't have a clue how to help you. My husband does that to me and I know it hurts but I know not to go to him with anything with any substance to it. Why don't you try with me? If I have any idea how to help you I will try.
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Old Oct 13, 2010, 07:58 PM
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those guys are insensitive immature jerks! They only do it because they're safe behind their monitor, it's a cowardly act, honest.

i cried today, a few hours ago actually. i was listening to "long, long way to go" by def leppard and it just reminded me of some things. it wasn't really a sad cry... more like a letting go cry.. an accepting my life and now it's just time to take the next step forward, cry. The song was kind of like the credits to a movie, and the cry just blinking and getting up to walk out of the theater, back into the real world.. or back into that line to by another ticket and see another movie ^^; which ever.. it felt good to let it out, and to challenge those who told me i shouldn't cry over people like that. i know i shouldn't but i couldn't deny myself or my feelings anymore, and as soon as i stopped denying, i cried and i felt 100x better o: but that's just me.

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Old Oct 13, 2010, 08:00 PM
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Maybe the people were making fun of your spelling because they didn't have a clue how to help you. My husband does that to me and I know it hurts but I know not to go to him with anything with any substance to it. Why don't you try with me? If I have any idea how to help you I will try.
well, iv been having trouble getting into very bad fights with my mom and sister. nasty insults are often trown around like the c word and b word. iv really been feeling a little pushed to the edge lately. but im in a good mood today, somewhat. i know i shouldent tell you how to run your marriage but mabey you should talk to your husband about that. let him know that hurts you when he insluts you about your issues. but im sure your husband wasnt as bad as these assholes were. they were writting comments that were horribley misspelled(get it) and saying stuff like i sound like a 13 year old and tagging my post as unintellgible and poor grammer, and whiney, they need to get a life.

blessings, sadface
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Old Oct 13, 2010, 08:12 PM
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those guys are insensitive immature jerks! They only do it because they're safe behind their monitor, it's a cowardly act, honest.

i cried today, a few hours ago actually. i was listening to "long, long way to go" by def leppard and it just reminded me of some things. it wasn't really a sad cry... more like a letting go cry.. an accepting my life and now it's just time to take the next step forward, cry. The song was kind of like the credits to a movie, and the cry just blinking and getting up to walk out of the theater, back into the real world.. or back into that line to by another ticket and see another movie ^^; which ever.. it felt good to let it out, and to challenge those who told me i shouldn't cry over people like that. i know i shouldn't but i couldn't deny myself or my feelings anymore, and as soon as i stopped denying, i cried and i felt 100x better o: but that's just me.

I hope you feel better
gonna look that song up
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Old Oct 13, 2010, 10:48 PM
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Tonight, over medical issues, can't decide what to do and all that I could do was cry over them. I wish I could say the tears made me feel better but are only keeping me up now. I appreciated this post though; it may me laugh when I read the title as it was happening in the moment, thank you for this. The tears have actually stopped.
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Old Oct 13, 2010, 11:33 PM
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Greetings,

I shed a lot of happy tears for, I feel, there is much to smile about, these days.

Have a good one.
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 02:20 AM
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i cried yesterday when i was helping my daughter in her study .
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 04:51 AM
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i cried yesterday when i was helping my daughter in her study .
If you do not mind my asking, were tears caused by happiness, such as you were so proud of her, or were they caused by dissapointment, such as in her , and/or the study, itself?

Have a good one.
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 06:09 AM
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I cried in 2007 when my cousin was killed while overseas (he was in the Army)
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 06:48 AM
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I cried yesterday because my T cares about me (but is going away). I cried because the people in here care about me too.
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 06:54 AM
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The other day 4 months of no crying has finally caught up with me. I was sad cause I read bad things I had written about myself. I am nasty when I am depressed
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 10:06 AM
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People made fun of your spelling? Shame on them! Just consider the sources.....

I'm sorry I didn't see your post, but I'm having to avoid dealing with other hurting people right now, due to my own pain.

I cried yesterday--and already today! There are people here who do care, as you see from othe other responses....
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 10:08 AM
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Note: If anybody makes fun of my spelling problems in my last post--SHAME ON YOU! I am typing with one finger due to a car wreck injury! When we're hurting, we're doing the best we can!!
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 10:34 AM
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I have been very depressed lately and my gf has been asking whats wrong-it's her so i havent said a whole lot-yes she knows it's her- I started crying while we were on the phone the other day-then she said she had to go-she doesnt hold me or reassure most of time and walks away if she infront of me-I stopped crying when we hung up! I havent cried since-only I can control my emotions-for this-i do my best not to show emotions in front of her
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 01:12 PM
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I cried two days ago. Don't know. Bipolar thing. Exhaustion and general low, sick mood.
Got a problem with spelling, do they? Hmmph. Better a problem with spelling than a problem with thinking, my friend. They at least have spell checks on these boxes. Think checks are a little more controversial, and nothing can help a lack of human decency. I'm sorry you had to waste your tears on those folks, they are probably a lot more valuable than that. HUGGS.
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 02:05 PM
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Tonight, over medical issues, can't decide what to do and all that I could do was cry over them. I wish I could say the tears made me feel better but are only keeping me up now. I appreciated this post though; it may me laugh when I read the title as it was happening in the moment, thank you for this. The tears have actually stopped.
your welcome, im sure you,ll be ok
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Old Oct 17, 2010, 09:48 PM
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Thanks noirkitten for your comments even while you are hurting. My husband has serious issues such as alcohol abuse and it usually is before he gets his "fix" that he is at his worst. It is easy to say the people that said hurtful things to you have a problem so forget about what they have said but it takes time. Know that you didn't deserve the mean spirited remarks and try to let it go. You sound pretty special to me!
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