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Old Nov 29, 2010, 02:23 PM
MandiePoo MandiePoo is offline
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Hi everyone!

Since i do not have a computer anymore due to my house being broken into,check in - could  be mildly trig *addiction, physical abuse, i thought I would drop in and update you while im at the public internet access center.

Things are so terrible right now - my addiction is quite managed right now thankfully, but im fighting a losing custody battle where I may never see my son again. On top of that ive found out that the main reason for that is lies MY mother told, to child welfare and now they are trying to say I am mentally ill and violent tendancies. Sigh.

anyone who knows me knows I am the furtherest thing from violent...i abhor it and i dont even harm bugs because i feel so sad and awful when I do.

Aside from that, things with my boyfriend have been worked out some and have been going ok, but im still really really suspicious and i just dont know if my trust in him can be restored. Its really sad because i love him so much but if i cant trust him how can we be together right?

money is super tight right now, but im trying to stay in the mind that knows material goods are never truly as satisfying as emotions and personally close relationships. Im on the verge of giving up on my adoptive family because they have basically all refused to help me with my child and my aunt told me today "you just dont have any support here or in this family". not surprising because i never reALLY DID.

anyways, how are all my loves? drop me a line. I need the love of y'all right now to balance things out.check in - could  be mildly trig *addiction, physical abuse
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lynn P.

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Old Nov 29, 2010, 02:59 PM
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(((MandiPoo))) How I wish I could make life easier for you.
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Old Nov 29, 2010, 04:40 PM
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((MandiePoo)) - thanks for checking in with us and sorry to hear about all the recent setbacks. It must be so hard struggling with wanting to get your son back and not being able to. I hope you have someone in your corner to help you.

I can't imagine how devastating it must feel to have your own mother say bad things about you and then to get the double whammy from your biological family. I've read your posts in the Healthy Parenting section and I doubt you could ever hurt a child. All I can say is, do your best to get your son back. Big hugs to you ((MandiePoo)).
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Old Nov 29, 2010, 05:31 PM
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((((((((Mandi-poo))))))))))

I'll keep you in my thoughts...
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Old Nov 29, 2010, 09:01 PM
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((((MandiePoo))))

I don't recall seeing you before on here as I'm quite newish but I wanted to say I'm thinking of you
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Old Nov 29, 2010, 10:15 PM
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mandy hon I hope you have an attorney that can help you with this situation. I really hate to think you will never see that sweet baby again. fight girl! I know you have it in you! I still love you!
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Old Nov 30, 2010, 12:41 AM
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So glad to hear from you. So sorry you have to go thru this though. I know in the end you will get your child back! Good luck to you!
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Old Nov 30, 2010, 01:08 PM
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Ah (((((((((Mandypooo))))))))
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