[radio_flyer]

I was sitting outside this morning around l0am and I saw this stream of water coming off the deck so I check it out and find the "renter" peeing off the deck...I said what the heck are you doing? He said someone was in the bathroom and he had to go really bad. I, of course, told him not to do it again... We have neighbors with little kids that could have seen him. I was pretty irked... big time... So I was just wondering, if this is a guy thing...

I guess if we lived in the woods he could have peed behind a tree.. BUt give me a break... Peeing off the deck doesn't go over well with me one bit....He thought it was funny...

[siljie]

I would have definitely been disturbed too... Blech. It may be a guy thing, but it's definitely not a gentleman thing.

[BugsyMalone]

Definitely not a gentleman thing. A gentleman would use the kitchen sink.


Sorry... but seriously, that's pretty bad - especially if your neighbours have little kids.

[Erti]

lol or used an empty milk jug. I would of taken pictures and posted it on the internet or something.

[splitimage]

That's definitely just rude.

[lynn P.]

I agree it's extremely rude. If he really had to go that bad he could have peed in a plastic cup. I've also disliked it when some guys do this, unless they're out in the middle of no where.

The other day I was coming out the front door at night and the teenage boy next door was getting out of car with his friends. One of his friends said "hey I'm gonna pee in the f'ing garden and he did. The neighbors next door are nice but I guess the son can't control his friend.

[radio_flyer]

lol erti... taking a picture and posting it online would have been a hoot.. Too bad it happened so fast and I didn't have a camera ready.. lol I was rather surprised and he was more than surprised when I caught him.. I do think he dribbled a bit on his leg.

[radio_flyer]

Lynn, he could have waited or he could have told whoever was in the bathroom to please hurry... No need to pee off the deck. We have neighbors right behind us that have little kids that are 4 and 5 years old...Just gross... plain gross... Oh and our deck isn't a ground level type deck... It is a second level deck which means he was standing above the world peeing his heart out.....Am surprised he didn't try to write his name in the air while peeing...........I tell ya the guy was standing tall and spraying like a loaded hose.... didn't know one could pee that far. maybe that is one of the benefits of being a "man"..

You'd think a 25 year old that graduated from the local university had more class....

[Evening]

Its not uncommon for guys to pee wherever they please purely because they have something aim with. I have seen MANY guys pee by the side of the road or on a tree in complete view of everybody, they just turn their backs and are disillusioned into thinking thats all the dignity they need. I find it REPULSIVE.

[survivor15]

Ew! so sorry you had to go through that.

[ariesmars]

sorry to admit it, but being male i have gone outside before. i know..BUT i have never done it is sight of anyone and not in the open. guess we are just animals ive seen cows just let it drop and walk through it! eeewwww.....

[AAAAA]

This is very common in other countries btw. I was discussing witnessing this practice in Japan with a friend. She said "oh my husband was very upset when someone built a house on the lot next to us because he couldn't pee off the deck anymore." I was shocked. They had three people living in the house with three bathrooms. Her husband actually had to pass TWO bathrooms to go out the back door to pee off the deck. Why would you pass two bathrooms to pee outside? I just don't get it. My father and brother did not do this. Well, not that I know of.

[radio_flyer]

ariesmars... not meaning to ever suggest men are animals.. I actually "love" men.. It isn't the peeing outdoors that bothers me.. It is "where" that bothers me... I just don't see any reason to pee off a deck in plain sight or to be honest to pee anywhere around a person's home when bathrroms are available.. Peeing in a garden or in a yard just doesn't go over well with me...It just isn't necessary.....And when there are small "female" children next door, well that makes me "too" angry when an adult man decides to pee in the yard or off a deck.....

Now being in the woods, hiking or camping and taking a quick pee behind a tree doesn't bother me at all.. Or being somewhere where bathrooms aren't around, well that again is a different story... Just don't pee in my yard.. please

Maybe it isn't just the peeing that bothers me... It is the "exposure" that bothers me, especially when small female children might see what they need not be seing at such a young age. But then peeing in a yard doesn't go over well with me either.. Guess the whole thing irks me... Esp when bathrooms are within walking distance..

[lynn P.]

sorry to admit it, but being male i have gone outside before. i know..BUT i have never done it is sight of anyone and not in the open. guess we are just animals ive seen cows just let it drop and walk through it! eeewwww.....

Don't worry ((ariesmars)) - I agree with radio flyer...that it's the 'doing it when there's a chance the person could be seen that's the problem'. I can also tell from radio flyers threads, that she has great respect for men in general.

I think many men from all over do this and most are discrete. I even wonder if there could be some ancient territorial thing going on lol - I mean this is a light hearted way. I also think it's probably a tad fun to do and we think about how little boys learn how to pee, with the aim and how we make a big fuss for getting it right.

Another thing worth mentioning is - men are conditioned not to be AS secretive as women when they pee, which is why they have urinals in bathroom - men are used to NOT peeing in privacy in public restrooms. So these are some legitimate reasons to support peeing outside. I agree it's rude to do it in front of others but if no ones around, it's not bad. The devilish part of me thinks it's probably a bit fun peeing from a high place LOL.

[radio_flyer]

lollllllllllllllll Lynn, peeing in high places.... what can i say.. lol... not sure a female will ever experience that pleasure. Esp in our "squating" positions trying our best to not pee on our feet.. Which comes to light, I have peed outdoors, "in the woods" but never in public... And it is very hard to make sure even our clothes don't get wet, let alone our feet when squating outdoors.. lol

Peeing off a deck where people can see is something you could actually get arrested for if a cop saw you (in the US) Public Lewdness i think it's called.
However in our one bedroom house, there are times when I am in the bathroom and husband needs to go, he will go behind our secluded house - never off our deck.
Somehow I can always manage to hold it when HE is in the bathroom though - I'd drive to a store and use the bathroom there before going outside!

[mgran]

That's gross, and my son, a fifteen year old male, agrees that it's disgusting... particularly the fact that the "gent" concerned was standing on a height peeing down. He says if you do pee outside you have to be sure it's secret.

[lynn P.]

In your particular case radio flyer, this was very inappropriate, since he's a renter and he could have easily been spotted by anyone. This isn't his property and peeing in a discreet corner is much different than peeing in someone's garden......not to mention the eeeeeeew factor of it splashing. It may seem like I have two opinions - but if this was HIS house I could see how peeing from a high point(if it was secluded) could be somewhat amusing.

[AAAAA]

Originally Posted by jadedmoonbeam

Peeing off a deck where people can see is something you could actually get arrested for if a cop saw you (in the US) Public Lewdness i think it's called.
However in our one bedroom house, there are times when I am in the bathroom and husband needs to go, he will go behind our secluded house - never off our deck.
Somehow I can always manage to hold it when HE is in the bathroom though - I'd drive to a store and use the bathroom there before going outside!

This is very true, however some places are exercising some common sense now. A college mate of my daughters will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life because he peed behind a bush. That bush happened to be within so many feet of a private elementary school. (It was 2 am, school was not even in session for the year, but the statue stands). Cases like this has caused some changes in local legislation. Peeing behind a bush is stupid, but it shouldn't change a man's life forever.

[Evening]

This reminds me of the time I was looking for my grandfather down the side of the house one day and I found him peeing on the garden.

[danii24]

haha yea i hd a male friend like dat. 1 night i had a party in the house and he kept climbing out the kitchen window to go out side. i dnt no y he didnt use the toilet becxause i had 2 toilets both free. and instead of using the back door to go to the garden he used the kitchen window !!!!

[radio_flyer]

lol danii...sounds like your friend is a character.. doors are easier than windows.. but then sometimes guys think different that girls....what can i say? guess they just pee wherever when they gotta pee... smile

[thine_self_untrue]

That is just disgusting. Being male doesn't excuse that.

I guess if it was an emergency and it was that or peeing himself . . . but he could've gone somewhere more discrete.

[Yoda]

When I was a little girl I would often need to pee during our roadtrips to visit relatives. My state is very rural and you don't find stores or restaurants with bathrooms for miles and miles. We would pull to the side of the road and open both the front and back passenger doors to block others' view if perchance another car would come by and I would pee between the two doors. I guess my mom and stepdad decided this was best because when my stepdad was dating my mom and I was five years old he took us to a rodeo because I love horses. The rodeo was great but the traffic jam afterwards was horrid and I kept saying, I gotta pee, I gotta pee, and they said just a moment longer... until I peed in the floor of the back seat. I guess they believed me a bit more after that.