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Old Apr 05, 2012, 09:46 AM
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...that I can find the courage to do things that scare me.
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Old Apr 06, 2012, 02:58 AM
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Today i tell my self no more apologies

I grew weary of apologizing
To the world
And to myself,
For myself.
My parents said,
"We never had any luck."
That apology.
He said,
"You have a nice face, it's too bad you're . . ."
That apology.
My children said,
"Mommy, why are you different?"
That apology.
I said,
"I'm a cripple."
That apology.
I declare now to hell with apologies!
I am God's own,
Life's own,
My own.
No apologies.

by Murielle Minard

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Old Apr 06, 2012, 06:58 AM
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Today, I will tell myself...no more procrastination!! Get this apartment cleaned up!!
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Old Apr 06, 2012, 09:01 AM
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... whatever you do, that is what you have done.
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Old Apr 06, 2012, 11:52 AM
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TOday, I will tell myself not to feel guilty for the pain I feel. My body has gone througha lot of physical demands in my life, all due to my own choices...figure skating, rollerskating, hiking, marching, dancing, tons of walking, and climbing. Then, 30 years of working on my feet. It is only reasonable that my body would tell me enough is enough. I shall not feel shame for this.
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Old Apr 06, 2012, 02:23 PM
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I have done all that I need to for today; it is time to rest.
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Old Apr 06, 2012, 03:27 PM
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Get at least one thing done, even if it doesn't seem like a lot.
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Old Apr 06, 2012, 05:52 PM
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do something
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Old Apr 07, 2012, 02:38 AM
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Enough! MOVE ON!
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Old Apr 07, 2012, 05:53 AM
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I have this nagging doubt about my work and need to pay attention to why this is. I will tell myself it is better to acknowledge and address them than to ignore it and be plagued with continuing doubt. "The only limit to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today." -Franklin D. Roosevelt
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Old Apr 07, 2012, 04:56 PM
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to just calm down.
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Old Apr 08, 2012, 08:10 AM
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To remember to breathe and not overdo it.
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Old Apr 08, 2012, 08:42 AM
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To try not to think too much.
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Old Apr 08, 2012, 04:44 PM
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The rain did not hurt the rhubarb.
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Old Apr 09, 2012, 08:46 AM
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that I'm going to try NOT talking to myself.
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Old Apr 09, 2012, 02:14 PM
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.... that I am okay and not a failure for simple mistakes.
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Old Apr 09, 2012, 05:12 PM
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... I do not need to know how low I might limbo.
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Old Apr 09, 2012, 05:56 PM
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I'll feel better again soon.
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Old Apr 09, 2012, 07:10 PM
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I am feeling calmer now.An ativan is tempting
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Old Apr 10, 2012, 05:39 AM
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Today- I will tell myself, that maybe, just maybe, I am worth the chance.. Maybe to try to take that leap is what I need to do.
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Old Apr 10, 2012, 05:46 AM
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I will tell myself, that if he cannot or will not have a relationship with me that I am still a great person and that it has nothing to do with me!!!!!
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Old Apr 10, 2012, 05:49 AM
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That i have a lot to be grateful for I have the ability to laugh, I have a job that i fight to keep, I have my legs, my eye sight, a car, a family I want more than I already have but am grateful for what I have now and have been given.
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Old Apr 10, 2012, 05:58 AM
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that whatever comes my way, I can cope with it and will be able to manage, no matter how trying it is.
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Old Apr 10, 2012, 03:20 PM
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Today I will tell myself not to discuss mental health in the work place. People can become overly protective suddenly.
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Old Apr 11, 2012, 08:12 AM
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that the internal criticism is not helping as it's wearing me down, and that I need to practice more self compassion.
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It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view.
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