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#1
Dec 11, 2009, 05:46 PM
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To those on my friends list. I disabled the visitor messaging option on my profile. I don't deserve visitor messages.
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• A bearer of a shattered soul and a mind all ripped and torn • I will rather learn to enjoy misery than partake a life of hypocrisy |
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Dec 11, 2009, 05:48 PM
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(((Freak)))
I'm sorry you are hurting. You deserve all the support in the world!
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[SIGPIC[/SIGPIC]  Susan
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| *freak*, ADHD1956
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Dec 11, 2009, 05:54 PM
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Deserve? It depends on whether they're good or bad if I agree or not.
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Dec 11, 2009, 06:25 PM
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*****
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Dec 11, 2009, 06:48 PM
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Dec 11, 2009, 08:44 PM
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  (((Freak)))
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Dec 11, 2009, 11:08 PM
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I understand completely. I've gotten a few friends' requests & I just thanked them & said I didn't think I was "friend material."
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#8
Dec 11, 2009, 11:37 PM
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What is the criteria for being a friend? How do you decide whether you deserve a message? And why would you want to slap the hand of one who reaches out to you?
Friends can be invaluable in promoting recovery from the malaise that torments you. Rebuffing those who care is hard to understand. |
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#9
Dec 12, 2009, 02:18 AM
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I am sorry you feel that way. I would pop in to leave you a message from time to time and it always felt good to do so.
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Dec 12, 2009, 01:54 PM
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Hugs and I hope you change your thinking on this soon! You do deserve all the support you can get and we deserve to be able to reach out! Please....feel better soon! blessings
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 ToniH
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Dec 12, 2009, 07:16 PM
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What does one do that makes them not deserve visitor messages? How would I recognize that?
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 Vickie
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#12
Dec 16, 2009, 06:25 PM
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Very gently, as soon as you will feel comfortable...
I want the visitors' message area back! 
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Dec 16, 2009, 08:55 PM
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Quote:
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Dec 16, 2009, 09:37 PM
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I'm sorry about your pain. Hope you start feeling better soon.
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Nov 22, 2012, 07:51 PM
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i call that my defence.. you cant hurt me if i dont let you in! its hard and im learning to not let that happen as much as i can.. i get pretty mad and frustrated when i have asked for help and that is the one thing i cannot do!!!.. but when i do.. seems ever yone would rather walk around me like im not even there or even talk to me for that matter.. yesterday, no one spoke to me till 10 at night.. I LIVE IN A HOUSE WITH 4 ADULTS!? im a kind person and i think of every one first.. if you asked me for my last 20 dollors.. i would give it you to you.. if you were cold i would give you my jacket.. but i dont see that in return in anyway with my so called family or freinds here..
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Nov 22, 2012, 11:09 PM
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Hi freak...Quizzickle here. I was trying to leave thanks on TheByzantines post because the insight was pretty profound. I kept getting an error...then I noticed TheByz was a guest and maybe that's why. Anyway I'll thank that person here...I had to. Take care Freak...sounds like you have some people here who care. We've all seen some shite...that's why. Alone ain't no cure. Can you say why you feel this way right now? Not to pry...but maybe it could help you...and us too.
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