UNC vs duke

Anybody have a preference?

Tar Heels out of the gate with a commanding lead.

It might just be the two of us that care. Luckily, we're on the same side!

"Unc me no unc and Duke me no Duke" - Shakespeare

I would not be surprised if this gets moved elsewhere.

GO HEELS!!!!! My T and I agree on this!

I'm thinking who cares has a real shot. Who cares?

"Grace me no grace, nor uncle me no uncle." - Richard II

I looked it up.

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heels!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :d

My T and I agree on that too!!! it was one of the things that helped me to trust her.

after all, who could trust a therapist who roots for Dook.....

I COMPLETELY agree!

::sings: "Hark the sound of Tar Heel voices, ringing clear and truuuuueeee..."::

"....we stole this fight song from Cornell
I knew that didn't youuuuu "

The most interesting part of this thread is to know how many people from NC are on PC. But Dean Smith does look good. (is red the correct color?)

I have asked the admins to move it.

obviously a move from someone who never lived in an ACC college town. There, it's part of you - not just a game.
This thread has as much to do with psychotherapy as "the couch", Apteryx. you haven't asked to have that one moved have you?

I'm not from NC but both my T and I have UNC on our resumes. It gave us a link that I didn't expect, a non threatening common ground that allowed us to share memories and humor and that helped me open up to her, because I have (major) trust issues.

How cool is that? My former therapist and I also both had UNC on our resumes.

UNC has educated a lot of people evidently. I think they kick out exemplary therapists.

I agree, while I adore the couch, that thread has a mind of its own. I do like cool whip!

I also agree that talking about ACC basketball is like talking about the weather. It's just soooo common - especially now that March Madness is almost here. Even my therapist and I talk about it now.

It's like a blanket across the south/mid atlantic for some. An immediate common bond.

And yes, we have to include the dookies.

Thank you for this response, sawe. I am glad to hear that you find this topic useful in your therapy.

don't think for a minute that it can't happen.

SAWE: Last week I was sitting at a light, and this car pulled up along side of me.
The guy leaned out his window and said with a **** ***** grin, "We. beatcha."
And then he drove off so I could see his Duke bumper sticker .

T: And how did that make you feel?

SAWE: I went back to work the next day and took it out on a co worker who went to NC State. But I found out there's no satisfaction in that - it was too easy. Like shooting fish in a barrel.

T: (nods)

My PDOC is a dookie, and yet somehow I connected with her despite that.

Sorry if this thread placement has offended anyone. I didn't want that. I just spend most of my time on-line in the pysch thread, it's almost the only place I post. OK with me if it gets moved.

For what's it's worth, I also asked to have this thread moved. And I attended undergrad at Maryland, so I've lived in an ACC college town.

This board is meant to help people with life issues particularly related to psychotherapy. A non-related thread takes away board space from someone who might need help or have concerns related to therapy.

I have been very surprised that the couch threads were allowed to stay on the boards, but I have seen first hand that they do have the capacity to help people with their therapy.

Now that I've said my piece and probably sound like a jerk, I'll get off my soapbox.

It might be kept in mind that 'support' can be of many kinds - including humor and relaxation.

We can't be handing out kleenexes to each other ALL the time.

how does it go - "a merry heart doeth good like a medicine."

the couch has a lot to do with T and helps me with my T and processing a lot and also am able to be distracted when needed to get out of my head after a bad session. must say i am surprised about feelings some have posted here about the couch.

Are we talking about both men's and women's teams here? I gave up basketball when Pat Summit was diagnosed with early onset dementia.

OMG are you sure we never dated? LMAO

I never found men's basketball interesting. But I used to watch a lot of college women play.