I totally lost it...

AJ is remodeling the bathroom upstairs. Which means there is no working toilet, shower or bathroom sink... Which means everyone and I mean "everyone" has to use my bathroom which is in my bedroom...

I told AJ, "in the beginning" that I didn't mind people using my bathroom because I was so excited AJ was finally remodeling his bathroom...

GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESH that "renter" has a sick up his *** and I'm gonna kick it further up his ***..........Not sure who he thinks he is and who he thinks he is isn't who I think he is........ Wouldn't be so bad if he paid his rent... Always an excuse..........

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO last night, 3am.... 5 am.... 9 am the renter uses the bathroom... I am pretending to be sleeping. Biting my tongue, saying nothing when his "aromas" fill my bedroom........Didn't hear the water running so He Does NOT EVEN WASH HIS HANDS after using the bathroom. omg my tummy turned and I see him with my "minds eye" getting ice with his hands from the freezer....... uggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggh puke... Will ask his to wash his hands everytime I see him in the kitchen...

So ok.. I slept in this morning.... It is SUnday...grins.... So around 11 am I am brushing my teeth... washing my face... whatever else one does in the bathroom in the mornings and this renter is knocking on my bedroom door....
Telling me he needs to shower..... and he started to walk in the bathroom.. AND I said "HEY, I'm not finished in the bathroom".... .He said he was in a hurry and that he had a meeting.. And I said when I am finished he can use the bathroom........

SOOOOOOOOO he tries to push past me...... AND I "TEN MILLION bad words here" flip out.........................................I swear to GOD he ever tries to push past me I will I don't know what I will do, I just know it won't be very lady like........ HOW DARE that little fker........ AND YES I Know .. profanity isn't lady like but who cares when you are dealing will jack asses..

I tried to delete this and put it in the rant thread but the delete post button has vanished...this is nothing more than a rant.. that rant thread needs to be "PINNED" to the top so it can easily be found.....

THE "MEN" I don't know why they think they can push me around... smack me... cuss at me.........Is it because I am short. I know for a fact if I was stronger and taller than 5'1, I'd be kicking some fat ***.... But I can say this short, litltle old lady isn't taking it anymore......I've learned a certain tone in my voice when angry throws these men off guard......Guess that is all I have for now....I'm shoven back... too............. and i will hit back too......... don't mess with me.... I will not die a pathetic beaten up old lady... I WILL GO DOWN FIGHTING>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>..

Rant away dear lady! I probably would have gone all white trash on the jerk!

From your posts about this guy he sounds like a real piece of work. Mayhapsw you should start locking your bedroom and bathroom doors when using the facilities.

Renter is only using my bathroom because AJ is remodeling the bathroom upstairs. I have the only working toilet, shower and bathroom sink........... But this asshole thinks he owns this house and that we are to jump at his command.....my jumping days are over.............

Ha! He had a meeting.. and had to hurry... well he took a 15 minute shower as I timed him........ he sat upstairs talking to the guy hanging the sheet rock in the bathroom for 45 minutes.... as I timed him.......................he is such a liar he wouldn't know the truth if it slapped him in the face . I caught him in so many lies and stories it would make a sane persons head spin. I won't even talk to him as everything he says is fabricated or a plain lie.....I don't deal well with those kind of folks......

As for "going all white trash" on the idiot... Well he "shrieked at me" like a girl and called me "psycho" and I glared back and said "you think this is psycho, you haven't seen anything yet"........he just looked at me...........he tried to push me aside so he could get to the bathroom....... and I flipped out and he calls me psycho... lol........... do believe his middle of the night pees will be outdoors... because the bathroom door will be locked between midnight and l0am....

call me psycho will ya...

This guy is a jerk, totally inconsiderate... oh hell I don't need to describe him to you
You think maybe it's time to toss him out?

Yes, it is time to toss him out.. AJ keeps giving him a chance to pay his rent on time. As of yet, his rent for the month doesn't get paid until the middle and end of the month....

AJ is losing his patience .. soooooooo it might not be too long till he tosses him out...

The sooner the better. Hang in there

((radio flyer)) - sorry you're in this tough situation with everyone using your bathroom and the renter being rude. You have the right to be upset. There are common rules of etiquette - you knock before entering another persons private space. I have a bathroom off my bedroom and my girls prefer to shower there. If I know they might be in my bedroom and bathroom....... I knock and ask if I can come in. Even though I'm their mother and its my bedroom/bathroom, I respect their privacy.

I know you had hard time in the past with AJ procrastinating and renter problems. The big question is - when will this bathroom be done??? Next, is for AJ to figure out if this renter is a keeper or to get him evicted. Next he needs to tell this man - to be polite and knock 1st before going in your bedroom/bathroom. He also needs to respect you in other ways and tell him he acted inappropriately to you. Maybe this man could stay at friends place until this is finished ...maybe take off 1 week rent. You need to lock your doors at night so he'll have to knock. I hope this project gets finished soon.

Oh good idea...he should stay out in the backyard. How rude and inappropriate of him. I hope you don't have to deal with this much longer...people are always looking for places to rent; maybe you can find a nice, quiet female to rent from you.