I miss her......

I miss my mom. I miss her hugs , her way of making me laugh and smile. Her gentle and loving ways. I wish I could be more like her. I wish I were with her now. I need her , I need her hugs. I loved her so much. She was my friend. She was the one person I could always count on ... Always. She never failed me . She always understood me. She was the best mom a person could ever have. She gave birth to me 37 years ago yesterday. I had her for 23 yrs of my life. She was taken from me too soon. I want to be with her. I dont want to feel this emptiness inside anymore. Please no more of it. God I am hurting so much. I just want to feel her arms around me one more time.

I Love You Mom~ Me

(((((((((((((((((((((Tryin))))))))))))))))))

My heart is aching for you right now. I am so, so sorry for the pain your feeling.
Your mother loved you. She needed you just as much as you needed her. She may be gone, physically. But she is with you everyday of your life, watching you, holding you, kissing you, loving you, guiding you. Your mother is a part of you. This type of bond can never be broken. Close your eyes and remember her. You will feel her arms hugging you.
Take care of yourself. We are here for you.

((((BethEva)))))

i don't really know what to say, but I have to try to say something ..even if it doesn't come out right, because I can't even imagine having this kind of pain. To me this is one of the worst kinds of loses. I'm so sorry.

I'm so sorry you're hurting.
*hugs*
Eva

pass her kind of love on to others. i know she would want that for you because we're at our best, when we're giving something to someone else. her spirit watches you in love.....xoxo pat

*hug* I can't even imagine. *hug*

((((((((((tryin))))))))),

Be glad you have those wonderful memories of your mother. My mother just died 3 months ago. It is great to have the good memories. They will be with you all your life & in remembering, you will carry on the tradition of being a wonderful Mother yourself. Try not to look at it as hurting but as a blessing to have those wonderful pictures to remember her by.

(((((hugs))))),
Debbie

((((((((((((((((((((Bethy))))))))))))))))))))))

I can't even begin to imagine your pain cause I've never lost a parent. So I won't say that I understand cause I don't. I am, however, terribly sorry for your loss and hope that you can feel the big hugs, prayers, and good vibes I'm sending your way. You're well loved and appreciated here and we're all so sorry to see you hurting. If I can do anything, let me know.

Ry

Just want to skip over this week.. can someone make that happen? Please? I dont wanna go thru another one with out her here.. Never gonna be the same without her...

(((((((( SweetSunshine ))))))))))))
I feel for you, I miss my dad so much, he passed away in 2002, and there are days it feels like it is the same day, then there are days where remembering his sayings, bring me comfort, it's so hard to get use to. Memories keep those departed, "alive" in a sense, when people do not remember someone, to me that is when they have died.
Try to let the memories help bring comfort, yes, we know we all want more than memories, but we need to try to understand this crazy thing, life cycles.
Please take care.
Love,
Roe

i am only 13 but i can understand in some ways how you are feeling. my older sister died nearly a year ago now. i just want to let you now that i know and still experience the emtyness. i have just joined Psych Central and i hope it will help me. bye J

i cant make it go away
i cant bring her hugs back
i can give u hugs from me if that helps
u can have em anyway
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(((Beth)))

Sweet, I'm right there with ya. Today is the anniversary of my mom's death and I can hardly stand it. The pain never gets any easier. I miss her every day of every week of every month of every year.

I'm sending warm thoughts your way!
Okie

((((hugs)))) No, life goes on ... and it changes.... as others leave us...
Remember the phrase absence makes the heart grow fonder? I think about that at times... like, WHY? I think it's because we forget the bad... dismiss the faults... and concentrate on the love and the good... and then... we also FEEL their energy around us. Let her wrap you in her energy... and know you are loved... you aren't alone.

DE thank you for your reply.

I do let her memories in. Most of the time they comfort me. Its just around certain dates .. I get really depressed and it seems like the only person I could talk to about what I am going thru is not there for me. Ijust feel so lost.. and I feel selfish for wanting her here. I would never wish the pain she had endured the last 9 months of her life back on her just so I could have her here.

Help~
I am sorry you lost your sister. I hope the healing begins for you soon. Thanks for your reply. TC ok? Welcome to PC

Brawny~
Thank you so much for the hugs and reply and just thinking of me. I really do appreciate it soooo much. Sometimes the hugs are the best thing a person can do.

Hugz
Bethy

Thank you B~

Okie~
I am so sorry hon that your dealing with this too. I hope that you'll be able to find some peace in your heart and mind soon. I know she would want that for you.

Hugz
Bethy

Sky~
Yes I do remember that saying. Mom said it all the time to me whenever hubby and I were away from eachother for an amount of time. I feel her with me alot. I just wish she was here to let me know I am someone special. I dont feel that very often now a days.. ( and no I am not trying to ask for you guys to do that ..... just simply stating how I feel right here right now). And she always made it a point that I was shown how much she loved me and how much I meant to her. I was her only child she had. She had step children whom she loved very much. Never a day went by that I didnt get a hug from her and that she didnt make me smile. And there's always been days since she died that I cry , and my heart aches because I dont have that anymore.

{{{{{{{{{{{{SWEETIE}}}}}}}}}}}}}

im sorry i havent been able to chat more. im reading though and my heart and mind has been on you and i am lucky enough to still have my mom and i went to see her today and hugged her so tight and kissed her face all over like when i was a kid. and she asked what was that for i said that was for my SWEETIE.

hope to see you soon in chat for some much needed laughs and hugs

take care and god bless


LOST/Vanessa

(((((((((((((SweetSunshine)))))))))))))

I can only imagine how much you miss her ... longing for your mother is one of the hardest things out there IMO. Hang in there

((((((((((((((((SWEET))))))))))))))))))
I am so sorry for your loss. Please try to take care of yourself. Take care SWEET. Soidhonia