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Aug 03, 2005, 11:52 PM
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do i have the d&c done to get over the pain and bleeding or just let nature take its course since its already started? this is breaking my heart, this baby was suppose to make it this peanut had heart beat three wks ago and now i have to make the decision of a d&c or not.........either way life isnt fair and im not sure what i want, im in severe pain and bleeding alot but thats where my precious baby was for nine short wks and im not sure i want to give it up yet....i know i cant hold on forever but im not ready to let go yet....someone please help me make piece with the decision i need to make before tomorrow morning.....
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Aug 04, 2005, 12:43 AM
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welcome dsmart. i'm so very sorry for your loss. i really don't think you have a decision to make though. you need to go thru this procedure to get your body healthy again.
 i think you're going to have to have time to grieve. maybe you need to make the decision to allow yourself that? again, i'm so very sorry for your pain. my wishes and thoughts are with you now and in the morning. be safe, kd
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Aug 04, 2005, 08:22 AM
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coming from me, who thinks of you as a sister, not just a sister in law, you know how i feel....i know this is hard....i was with you, it broke my heart too.... i saw that little peanut.....i know you dont want to let it go.. but for your own health reasons you should have the d&c.
i am hear anytime you need me... day or night!!!! I love ya
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Aug 04, 2005, 08:44 AM
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thanks for telling me what i already knew in my heart that i need to do.....wish me luck im scared out of my mind.....
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Aug 04, 2005, 09:17 AM
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dont worry! I am hear for you!!!! I have a big fluffy pillow at my house you can use to cry on.... lords knows it has seen its share of tears!!!
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Aug 04, 2005, 02:06 PM
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dsmart welcome~
I understand totally where you are coming from . I've had 6 miscaraiges myself. And going thru the procedure was agonizing for the same reasons you are feeling .But I knew I had to if I were ever to make a healthy place for another baby to grow. I had to keep trying. Do this for yourself and for those future babies you may have. Hugz~ Bethy
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Aug 04, 2005, 09:34 PM
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Well guys I am home, and resting.....i went and had the D&c done today... The dr was glad i did as there was more in there that was not coming out. i am doing ok for now!!!
Thanks for listening
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