[FelineHeart]

My father passed away when I was 25 back in 1991 and my Mother passed away in 1997 a few months before I turned 31. Although we didn't always see eye to eye, I miss having them around. I have gotten married since but my husband's family isn't too friendly and kind of peculiar and my only living relative who I ever kept in touch with, My sister and My uncle(mom's brother) , Well, I haven't seen my uncle since my mothers funeral in 97 and my sister I only see 3 times a year even though they both live about an hour from here. My uncle is very peculiar and doesn't want to call or keep in touch and I still can't understand why and my sister is very well off and runs away from reality. Now she's finally being a little nicer to me since I've dropped nearly 50 pounds but it's sad that she thinks that way. At least we saw more of the both of them (sister & uncle) when my parents were still living. I feel a great deal of sadness and lonliness right now. My nasty mother in law says I need to "get over" these feelings for my parents. She's on another planet anyway. Well, thanks for letting me vent.
Sherri

I am so sorry that you have sufferred so many losses.

Sending healing thoughts to you,

Petunia

[EJ711]

Feline Heart,

I still miss my parents too.

Hugs,

Jane

[Mystry]

Hold On

When we think about the ones that we've lost
the memories are all we have to get us through
Even in our darkest hour
when we think we have no power
a single thought of yesterday can pull us through

Hold on tight to your memories never let them go
and when they say that you should forget
tell them no
then let it show
with tears for the past in your eyes
you'll never regret
they are the best

And when it all seems impossible
that crushing blow of defeat
When the weight of the world
has you pinned under neath
let a voice from the past
give you some comfort
and help you to last
Just hold on
hold on
just hold on to the past...

You take good care of your memeories...sometimes that's all we have.... about your loss...