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Old Dec 21, 2006, 05:07 PM
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Jan what time is your procedure? what time is funeral? trying to think here of a way to do both for you
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Old Dec 21, 2006, 10:17 PM
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The procedure is at 2:30 and the funeral doesn't start until 2. I'm going to be without food, water and meds that day, so I won't be feeling too well.

By the time I got home tonight, the family had left, but I'll see them tomorrow, I hope.

Thanks, Be.

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Old Dec 21, 2006, 10:28 PM
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Jan maybe it is better for you this way. God does have His own plans for us. luv ya hon and good luck at the test!
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Old Dec 21, 2006, 11:43 PM
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You know Be, Momma's neice told me Momma would want me to go have my test so I can start to feel better. Maybe God just knew I couldn't handle Momma's funeral. I just don't know.

I keep telling myself I shouldn't be here when they take Momma's furniture away, but part of me thinks I won't reach finalization unless I see it.

I couldn't believe how upset I became today when I walked into her apartment and saw her table and some other things moved. I am normally such a capable person. I do when others can't. I am the person you want in an emergency. This is so different. Is this normal?

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Old Dec 22, 2006, 12:23 PM
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Jan, would it help if you had something small from Momma Co's apt. see if the family can let you have a little item to keep
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Old Dec 23, 2006, 01:12 AM
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They did give me a couple tiny things. I have one of her cups and a hat. I'm going to hang the hat on my wall in my bedroom. Momma Co

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Old Dec 23, 2006, 11:26 AM
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