Confused Bipolar Doesn't Understand Ex's Behavior

Well, I've been working through my last serious relationship and have been confused about her behavior towards my behavior. She presented as a stable nurse who liked women who looked like me. The first few months we went out everything was fine. Then she said she was going back to school full time while she worked full time but wanted us to still have a relationship...okay, so I finally had to face the fact that didn't have time for me even though she swore she did until she was blue in the face.

She said that she wanted to be with someone who believed in God, but I guess I didn't realize at the time that she meant the same god she believed in. It created a huge problem...we could go to her place of worship, but not mine because it just wasn't convenient.

And through all this, she still wanted to spend the rest of the rest of her life with me so she goes out and buys this engagement ring and tells me it's 8 karats (it was an 8th of a karat) size doesn't matter but she made it sound it was really 8 karats. Her mother did as well...she wanted the ring from me. Anyway, the next morning, I asked when we should make the wedding and she said "as soon as I finish school" this would be 2 years from that date! I asked if we could move in together and she said "no, if we moved in together, you wouldn't like me".

This woman made no sense what so ever!

The last night we were together she yelled at everyone and complained that dinner was way too expensive (her friends chose the restaurant). When she dropped me off on our last date, she said "can I have my ring back". Had I known it was her ring I never would have accepted it. I just gave it back to her because I didn't want to have anything to do with her anymore.

I asked her why she was breaking up with me and she said that she couldn't date someone that was bipolar and caused my morals to twist up and she said I wasn't stable.

Most of the time I think I'm over her but sometimes I just want to write her a nasty note...

Anyone ever date such a bundle of confusion?

don't dwell on the past , IMHO you got the better of the deal, (you will find someone worthy of you )

It seems to me that she being the unstable one. complaining about how the meals were too expensive and how she is an indian giver, Blah! you don't need that kind of ********, yanno?

I agree with Nothemama8.. you got the better deal by not putting up with this womans crap! you should of gotten the red flag when she told you " you wouldn't like me" when you asked her if you could move in with her. Usually the person is right.

keep your chin up and find somebody else that wont discriminate you for what you have.