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Old Aug 18, 2007, 01:32 AM
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....... She had a Miscarriage - She had a Miscarriage - She had a Miscarriage -

I am a little sad tonight for I thought I would be sharing some good news with every one here - that I was going to be grandmother, but my future daughter-in-law lost the baby yesterday........ she was three months along and they had to do a D&C.

This precious baby would have been my oldest son's first child and my first grand baby - I was so looking forward to spoiling him (or) her in ways that only a grand-parent could.

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For those of you that believe please say a PRAY for my family - I hope for understanding from above.

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Old Aug 18, 2007, 03:20 AM
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(((((Rhapsody and family and blessed baby))))))

Keep with peace and love, your in my thoughts.
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 04:30 AM
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God Bless Rhapsody and her family during this very difficult time and help them to find healing along the way. Amen.
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 07:08 AM
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 08:48 AM
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I am so sorry...((((hugs)))
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 09:40 AM
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((((((((((((((rhapsody ,family & precious baby))))))))))))))

im so sorry this happened... u and ur family r in my thoughts
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 11:08 AM
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 11:34 AM
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 12:34 PM
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(((RHAPSODY AND FAMILY))). I am sorry for the loss you and your family are going through. I hope things get better soon. Soidhonia
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Old Aug 18, 2007, 03:41 PM
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rhap I am so sorry for your loss and that of your son. (((hugs)))
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 05:08 AM
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Thank you every one -
I just wish I could do some thing for them to help the healing process along, but I know that I cannot and that all I can do is be here for them as they need to talk or share...... my heart just breaks into to see here face (the gf) for she looks as though she has lost her best friend. She had a Miscarriage -

.... I want to ((( hug ))) her pain away.

.... I had decided to be called: Nana.
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 05:41 AM
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if you guys are religious...perhaps having a private session with a priest to have the baby and family blessed? i think it might be good for you all if you are religious to do something like this...personally...just to set some calm aura around your family...some sort of peace and final goodbye.....God bless
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hang in there She had a Miscarriage - She had a Miscarriage - She had a Miscarriage -
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Old Aug 19, 2007, 07:26 PM
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(((((Rhapsody and family))))) I am so sorry for your loss. There is a book you might want to look into for her. It's called
Mommy, Please Don't Cry... There Are No Tears in Heaven. It is written by Linda DeYmaz. There are beautiful pictures in it. It is told from the childs point of view, as if they are writing to their Mommy from heaven.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Old Sep 03, 2007, 08:26 PM
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She had a Miscarriage - She had a Miscarriage - She had a Miscarriage -

...... WOW! - blow me away, but I found out today that she did not actually loose the baby as stated, but that an abortion was performed and now she is depressed and sorry for what she did - but the deed cannot be undone.

.... My son is beside himself, for he did not know (and) he has moved back in with us while they see if their relationship can make it thru this.

.... My sons gf is going to see the T that I have been seeing - tomorrow.

.... While I am saddened about this event - I will NOT judge for I would hate to be judged for the few stupid things I did in my twenties, one of which I regret and yet cannot change.

.... Now I see why my son had a slight break down over his sister that passed away ten years ago at age ten a few days after the loss of this child - it resonated the unhealed pain that is left with in him concerning the loss of his only sister, that which he could do nothing about / had no say in. She had a Miscarriage -

............................ please PRAY and send your GOOD VIBES our way.
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{{{{{{{Rhapsody and son}}}}}}} I am so very sorry for the pain you both are in. I will keep you in my prayers.

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(((rhapsody and family)))

I wish only the best and happiness for you...
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Oh Rhapsody,

I'm so sorry.

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Old Jan 15, 2008, 03:38 AM
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I just found out that my son's gf is pregnant again........ the baby is due to arrive around the middle of July (my birth month) - and she is going thru with this pregnancy.

I am so happy - and I can't wait to be a Grandma.

Please pray with me that all goes well and that the previous abortion does not cause any harm to the precious little life she is carrying - my first grandchild. She had a Miscarriage -
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Old Jan 15, 2008, 10:53 AM
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rhap congrats granny! woo hoo!
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perhaps my Matthew can be your Grandbabie's guardian angel,
Love
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