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Old Jun 11, 2008, 08:44 PM
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I had a friend commit suicide last night. This is the second person close to me who I have lost by suicide. I am still in shock. I have his picture on my desktop and I keep looking at it thinking about how I am never going to see him again…thinking of his pain. Another friend said, “…he could not get past his pain.” The last year of my friend’s life was full of torment. I wish he could have known at least a little peace before he died. I will miss him.

There is a picture of us in my photo gallery. It is labeled “my friend.”
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Old Jun 11, 2008, 08:47 PM
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i am so sorry ,,,,,,so sorry to hear this.

thinking of you in this sad time of loss

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Old Jun 11, 2008, 08:55 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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Old Jun 11, 2008, 09:06 PM
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My sincere condolences go out to you.

Lost a friend...sad.
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Old Jun 11, 2008, 09:35 PM
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hon I am so sorry. (((hugs)))
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Old Jun 11, 2008, 09:36 PM
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Lost a friend...sad. Lost a friend...sad. Lost a friend...sad. Lost a friend...sad.

words of comfort... escape me... because the loss so great... your pain so great....his pain was so great that he choose... to do..what he did... to have peace...
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Old Jun 11, 2008, 09:52 PM
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(((Depressme))))) Lost a friend...sad.
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Old Jun 11, 2008, 10:12 PM
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Lost a friend...sad. De me ,,,,,, You Beaming and Happy in The Picture you shared ,, Your Friend ,, through his Eyes Deeply Cared .

The Losses of How or Why ,, Yes My FRIEND ,, Leave us to cry .
*sighs* ,,, Take Care De me ,,,, LOve .
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Old Jun 11, 2008, 10:25 PM
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I'm so sorry. Lost a friend...sad.
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Old Jun 12, 2008, 12:16 AM
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My friend was a doctor. He dedicated his life to healing others but in the end, could not heal his own wounds.

Compassionate, kind, gentle, altruistic...
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Old Jun 12, 2008, 12:23 AM
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I'm so horribly sorry to hear about your tragic loss...

I hope you have lots of people IRL to support you in this darkest of times...

Take care of yourself.

Sending you lots of love and support

Lost a friend...sad. Lost a friend...sad. Lost a friend...sad. Lost a friend...sad. Lost a friend...sad.

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Old Jun 12, 2008, 12:03 PM
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Lost a friend...sad.
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Old Jun 12, 2008, 09:23 PM
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I am always, always, always here for you Lost a friend...sad.
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Old Jun 12, 2008, 09:38 PM
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Old Jun 13, 2008, 07:55 AM
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I was looking at your photos before I read your post and the photo of your friend struck me,because he has such a kind sensitive and knowing face.
I am so so sorry.
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Old Jun 14, 2008, 02:43 AM
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i know how u feel unforntunately. i lost a friend just 3 months ago. i know it sux. it really does. its really hard but just know that hes in peace now. i know u might want him there with u but hes where he wants to be. just never forget him and he'll live forever in ur heart. best of wishes for u.
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