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Old Aug 05, 2008, 10:38 AM
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Been over two months since my nephew died, he was a son to me. So much grief
I hope it's okay to post this because I posted about him before in here but I just miss him so much. I know I always will.
When I'm not thinking I include him when I talk about family, when people ask me how my family is, I start with me, then I say Kate, then I say how the twins are doing.
Then I'll start to say Vlad is... and realize I'm talking about him.
Once I'm doing better I want to go up north and release his ashes under the northern lights.

I just miss him so much. Sorry to post here again, it can be deleted if it's not allowed.

RIP.

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Old Aug 05, 2008, 10:47 AM
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no hon it is fine. it is difficult to lose a child. he lived in your house as your child. it takes along time to start the healing proccess. hang in there hon. it does get easier as time goes on.
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Old Aug 05, 2008, 10:58 AM
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The amount of grief a person experiences is a reflection of how deeply they were loved while they were with us. Grieving can take years.

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Old Aug 05, 2008, 11:06 AM
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So very sorry Griffe...it is hard to let go...

Grief is one of those amazing "real" emotions where the genuine you comes shinning through. No alterior motives...just pure feelings. Though painfull it is so very, very human.

Patience is it's truest virtue in this place of grief. Let your feelings be expressed in any forum..for it is feelings shared that we find the rest he would have wished for you..

With care,

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Old Aug 05, 2008, 11:24 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((Griffe))))))))))))))))))))))

grief is so hard sweetie. I wish i could make you feel better, but it's time that is the healer here. Holding your hand and sending cuddles your way .... love ya dude, Jin xxoxoxoxoxoxo
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Old Aug 06, 2008, 09:30 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
So much grief So much grief So much grief
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My thoughts are with you.
So much grief So much grief So much grief So much grief So much grief So much grief So much grief
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Old Aug 09, 2008, 04:31 PM
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So much grief So much grief

Thank you everyone, I just miss him so much, he was too good and left this world too young So much grief
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Old Aug 23, 2008, 08:47 PM
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Old Aug 28, 2008, 11:50 AM
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((griffe)) so sorry for your loss. you can post here as many times as you need and want to. we are here for you.

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