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Sep 06, 2015, 05:04 AM
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dont know whats wrong with me sometimes am completely female other time am male without the body parts i cant seem to make my mind up
Am staying with my husbands family they have no clue about me being trans and am not ready to say to them that i am i was born female i bought a nice skirt yesterday as i liked it but i havent wore it as i feel like its wrong i wear joggy bottoms most of the time as i cant find clothes to fit me that are male like my husband dont want to buy clothes on line because we cant afford to send it back if it dont fit i hate going clothes shopping because my weight upsets me and the fact i cant fit in to the clothes its embarrassing when i put them back because am too fat for the clothes that i want to buy makes me not want to eat and restricted as low as possible in calories wise Am sitting in the hall of my husbands family house on my own i hardly talk to anyone apart from my husband ...i want to go home now but we have to wait until Tuesday
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Sep 07, 2015, 03:16 AM
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Hey, I've been meaning to post a reply to your post for a while now, I'm sorry it's taken me so long.
Clothes shopping is the worst! Especially online, it's so hard to find anything that fits and returning it is a pain. Although I think some online retailers provide free postage for returns (but I could be wrong about that). And if you found a skirt that's nice and you like it, there's nothing wrong with wearing it, because it's still an expression of who you are, your tastes, feelings and identity. And I know what you mean, sometimes I feel completely female, other times more male, sometimes both, and a lot of the times I just feel like an 'it', completely genderless and floating away from any sort of body identity at all. For me, I just try to enjoy and express the flow of all that as best I can. I hope the rest of your stay with your husband's family won't be too uncomfortable and lonely. Be good to yourself! Feel free to send me a pm if you get too bored!
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Sep 08, 2015, 05:43 AM
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hugs... just wanted to reply to say that i read your post and i support you |
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Sep 11, 2015, 10:48 PM
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Hi Jamie. Clothes are tough! I often find it hard to get clothes that fit me too. I've thought about buying patterns and just making my own clothes sometimes. I'd need more motivation to do that though
 While I can't relate directly to your experience of gender (I always feel male but was assigned female), I have definitely heard others who share a similar story to you. Sometimes they may identify with being gender fluid, agender, non-binary or something else. Some people just don't even want a label and say "I'm just me!" which I get as well. You're definitely not alone though  Do what feels best to you.
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Sep 18, 2015, 09:59 PM
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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