If it has **** or tires, it will give you problems

Sep 16, 2015 at 03:25 PM

This summer, I had a flat tire (nail went in) ... cost $400 to replace coz it was a Summer performance tire.

I also put all my hopes in a b***h who I met on an online dating site. She is full of herself. Ruined my day yesterday (we broke up a long time ago), but still text when I lose my dignity and tell her I miss her. I told her to go copulate with herself.

So, fellas, always remember ...

If it has tits or tires, it will give you problems.

08:36 AM

I hate to say it, but I couldn't agree more. It's in a woman's nature to manipulate people and prey on people's emotions. Most women aren't worthy of trust; plain and simple.

Cars are expensive, but at least they give you something in return for the money you spend on them. Men typically spend lots of money on women only to be dumped later down the road.

Sorry to say, but friendzoning women or using them for sex and keeping my hobbies and freedom is the more appealing option to me. Not to mention, putting all of your faith and energy into one person is like asking to get screwed over later.

ManOfConstantSorrow · Sep 17, 2015 at 04:37 PM

If it has tits or tires, it will give you problems - true, but what else is there in life?

Sep 17, 2015 at 05:48 PM

I agree Constant, I need both; one to get me around and one to enjoy while having fun. All I am saying is not all women are pains in the butt and just because you get a flat isn't the end of the world. Buck up it could be worse.

Webgoji · Sep 18, 2015 at 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by lilodian4ever

If it has tits or tires, it will give you problems.

I couldn't disagree more.

I've had the same pickup for 15 years. Aside from general things like picking up nails and maintenance it's been great. I've been married for 15 years as well and other than picking up some nails and relationship maintenance it's been great.

But then, I don't expect my truck or my wife to be anything other than what they are.

Sep 18, 2015 at 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by calpoe1

I agree Constant, I need both; one to get me around and one to enjoy while having fun. All I am saying is not all women are pains in the butt and just because you get a flat isn't the end of the world. Buck up it could be worse.

Now to clarify this I am not suggesting that I need a woman's endowment for personal pleasure in order to get gratification. I need a woman to have intellect, a sense of humor and to be emotionally available. If any other women come to this thread: I am sorry for piggishness or most of us men, we are not all created equally. It was easy to get sucked into this thread, when I first saw it I couldn't help but wonder what the heck someone was thinking posting it. I will admit I am a schmuck. I care about the feelings of all people, women included, and was not intending on being offensive. I do take offense though when people attack each other because they like crying over spilled milk.

10:24 PM

I probably went a tad bit overboard with my replies to this thread earlier; bipolar hypermania combined with a lot of pressure and financial issues in my life does that to me.

All I can say for all of the women who visit this thread is to at least try to understand that many of us men have been hurt and abused by women and are the way we are because of our experiences. Don't hate men like us; prove us wrong. Show us that there are women who are kind and compassionate and some of us might be inclined to change.

I hope to end my activity in this thread on a somewhat good note; after all it would be counterproductive to make enemies here and I'm not always good at understanding other people's feelings or why something that I say might hurt somebody; empathy is certainly not one of my stronger suits.

In the end, a person is nothing more than a product of their experiences.

Daystrom · Sep 18, 2015 at 11:48 PM

Ahhhh yes. Have had major problems with both this year.

Back in April I found out my tires had fallen victim to dry rot and I had to replace all of them to the tune of 900 bucks.

Throughout this year I've been dealing with the loss of a woman whom I loved dearly, but who manipulated and hurt me over a period of years.

I love women. Have felt such tenderness and affection toward the special ones in my life. I'm very taken with my female therapist. But I'm at a point at which I don't feel I can trust women and have to protect myself from being hurt again.

And tires.... yeah.

01:02 AM

Daystorm said it well: men do talk like this to each other lot. When I post in a forum labeled "Men Focused Support", I post as if I were sitting in a room solely with other men.

I don't devalue or think less of women either. When I made my previous post stating that most women manipulate men or prey on their emotions, I meant what I said, but I didn't intend for that statement to be an insult. In fact, a woman's natural ability to manipulate and perceive emotions is one of the bigger reasons why I respect women. It takes a lot of intelligence to be a skillful manipulator and intelligence and cunning are two of the traits that I value and respect the most.

I probably should of worded my post better and I will probably be made to eat my words when BlueCrustacean logs back on, but so be it. Everybody makes mistakes and I'm no exception. So what if I offended a few people? It's no big deal because I'm fallible like everybody else. Apologizing or caring about the implications from what I said is pointless at this point.

Sep 19, 2015 at 02:45 AM

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Originally Posted by calpoe1

I am sorry for piggishness or most of us men, we are not all created equally.

I, on the other hand, am NOT SORRY. This forum is called "Men-focused support", and I use it as a place to vent my frustrations about women.

I am NOT a hater of all women, only those who have stomped on me, and believe me, quite a few did. I treated them like queens and they treated me like absolute crap in return. Get it ? Here, I am venting about those experiences, and I absolutely have the right to do that.

So, if you're a woman browsing this thread, I have nothing to say to you, because, again, this forum is meant for men to be able to say WHATEVER THEY WANT, ESPECIALLY STUFF ABOUT WOMEN.

Sep 19, 2015 at 02:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Daystrom

This is one of those instances that prove the fact that women and men will never really understand one another.

As a man, I got a chuckle out of the thread title and instantly understood and related to what was being said. Men talk this way among themselves. We always have. Men are not going to change.

That doesn't mean I hate or devalue women. Exactly the opposite is true. I love and respect women for all that they are. I love them for all the ways in which they are different and for all the perspectives they have. My father has often said to my mother that he "married up". I understand what he's trying to say to her.

I would lay my life down for a woman. Any man who would hurt a woman should have his ****ing head taken off.

There are also many women out there who know they can take advantage of man's natural protective instincts. Some (far from all, or even most) do. We rage against the women who do such things because we love them so much and don't understand why they would hurt us.

Very well said, Sir. THANK YOU !!!

Sep 19, 2015 at 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by lilodian4ever

I, on the other hand, am NOT SORRY. This forum is called "Men-focused support", and I use it as a place to vent my frustrations about women.

I am NOT a hater of all women, only those who have stomped on me, and believe me, quite a few did. I treated them like queens and they treated me like absolute crap in return. Get it ? Here, I am venting about those experiences, and I absolutely have the right to do that.

So, if you're a woman browsing this thread, I have nothing to say to you, because, again, this forum is meant for men to be able to say WHATEVER THEY WANT, ESPECIALLY STUFF ABOUT WOMEN.

I'm starting to think that the admins should put a sticky on both the men's and women's forums stating something along the lines of "if you are easily offended by things said about your gender by the opposite gender, please do not view the posts here".

If a woman posts offensive things about men in a woman only board, I wouldn't reply with insulting remarks towards them; they have a right to their opinions about men. I would expect the same respect for members in the men focused subforum on PC.

OfficeWarrior · Sep 25, 2015 at 02:23 AM

You're not supposed to text your ex when you're lonely and craving TLC?! You're supposed to find a bar and get plastered while trying to flirt with the barmaid!

J/K (no really you should, except for the getting plastered part), it'll pass, hang in there *shoulder tap*

Daystrom · Sep 27, 2015 at 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by OfficeWarrior

You're not supposed to text your ex when you're lonely and craving TLC?! You're supposed to find a bar and get plastered while trying to flirt with the barmaid!

I knew I was doing something wrong. I've been texting her plastered from the bar.

Oct 09, 2015 at 01:57 PM

Hey Lilodian4ever, I've got to agree. If women don't want to see what's written here, they shouldn't be lurking here, period.

Things have truly reached an all-time low if we've got to start apologizing for stuff we say in a male-only zone.

None of us guys have to apologize for stuff we are posting here as men. As men, we do enough day-in and day-out apologizing for our so-called "male behavior" of which it has become a (profitable) fashion to frown upon nowadays. We come to a men's-only zone and when we enter, we need to be prepared to hang-up our "nice-guy" coat on the coat-stand right at the front door.

So guys, let's just chill, and speak our minds.

03:45 PM

...because we love them so much and don't understand why they would hurt us.

Wow, that struck such a chord with me Daystrom, thank you so much! I wish so much that women could understand this.

Damn, you're so right. I love them so damn much, everything about them. Their little mannerisms, their smile, the way they are so graceful and cute all at the same time.

All I want to do is be with them and adore them, hold them and cherish them. I don't understand why all this has to be so hard, why there has to be so much sh--t. It sometimes feels as though women don't want to be loved, almost like they view men who love as pathetic and weak, and it seems they prefer these guys who beat them and treat them badly, because it's somehow more fun or more entertaining. What on earth is it that they see in these guys? Strength? Masculinity? Power? Control? Do they feel more safe with a guy who can beat up and kill other guys? Maybe they feel love is just too boring, not enough adrenaline in the relationship, or something.

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ManOfConstantSorrow Grand Poohbah Member Since Jul 2014 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 1,954 10 4 hugs given	Sep 17, 2015 at 04:37 PM #3 If it has tits or tires, it will give you problems - true, but what else is there in life?
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anon2216 Guest Posts: n/a	Sep 17, 2015 at 05:48 PM #4 I agree Constant, I need both; one to get me around and one to enjoy while having fun. All I am saying is not all women are pains in the butt and just because you get a flat isn't the end of the world. Buck up it could be worse.
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OfficeWarrior Member Member Since Sep 2015 Location: In hell Posts: 31 8	Sep 25, 2015 at 02:23 AM #13 You're not supposed to text your ex when you're lonely and craving TLC?! You're supposed to find a bar and get plastered while trying to flirt with the barmaid! J/K (no really you should, except for the getting plastered part), it'll pass, hang in there shoulder tap
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