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Default Jan 12, 2008 at 11:10 AM
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Thats right, they want to make you the companion they want,in my opinion

You have to jump through hoops at times if you want " IT " and " companionship they have to offer "

sure, a few may have perfect relations, but they probably ain't on a mental health forum talking about it

in my opinion
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Default Jan 13, 2008 at 11:58 AM
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ive been thinking about this coral...

alright, compromise is needed... i would prefer to believe that i have choices here...

if its required that i adapt some self defintions in order to have companionship... ok... it sucks maybe, but, ok...

the thing i'm thinking about is the many men ive known, who lie, cheat and steal for sex..

it drags us all down...
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Default Jan 13, 2008 at 04:55 PM
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ya, you have the choices they give you, once they got ya hooked

just kidding ... of course we have choices to make

the amount of compromise needed may differ for everyone, depends on what you need .. to make you happy I guess

sometimes ya just got to take the good with the bad and vice versa ... in my honest opinion

what you need from a relation and what I need, may be different ..so I can only speak from my ever changing perspective and experiences
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Default Jan 13, 2008 at 04:57 PM
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thaks for listening coral... thanks for your input.. take care buddy...
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Default Jan 13, 2008 at 08:51 PM
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I probably am not the best listener, the bible says to be light on the tongue and heavy on the ears (I think)

I am not as good at that as I probably should be ...

but I try to understand people, best I can

sometimes I find that not every thing can have a 100% positive spin ..... or pretty picture painted, just to make it seem easier than it is, in my opinion

I dont think anyone wants to be alone always, though

and I believe there are more women than men out there, so the odds are in your favor ... to find one that you can tolerate and can tolerate you ...
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Default Jan 16, 2008 at 06:59 PM
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It's quick to listen, slow to speak.
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Default Jan 16, 2008 at 08:12 PM
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thanks 50 guy..that sounds good also 38 Secrets Every woman should know (Because I know they read this board)
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Default Jan 16, 2008 at 09:52 PM
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# 69. We really worship the ground you walk on, but ya probably already knew that one, ladys

# 70. Sometimes when we don't acknowledge when you speak to us, it is because we are hard of hearing

or lost in thought...........................in which case.....

please send a search party
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Default Jan 24, 2008 at 02:58 PM
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#71. Sometimes our way of helping/doing something is FAR different from what you would expect! It still doesn't mean we didn't understand or don't care. 38 Secrets Every woman should know (Because I know they read this board) 38 Secrets Every woman should know (Because I know they read this board)
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#72 we dont understand you and never will, but that doesnt mean we dont care.
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Default Jan 26, 2008 at 01:32 AM
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73 : If u think u have us on the ropes think again .... we have 2 nd and 3 rd winds up our sleeves




power to the heyjoes
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Default Jan 29, 2008 at 10:40 AM
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74. sorry you have to read our minds sometimes
75. sometimes we meant no harm if we made a bad joke at a bad time...
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Default Mar 18, 2008 at 03:33 AM
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